Today’s Tip !!
I have written many times about bringing up children . Always be friendly to children so that they won’t hide any thing from parents. In past generations, specially at the time of independence or just after independence, children were handled differently, means they were not allowed to sit where elders were sitting and talking, if they are already there they were asked to go from there as they are not entitled to hear elders talks, they were asked to go out and play outside. Was it correct ? I think many children were misguided by outer world , because, many type of bad and mischievous people always there, and children must be alerted from such bad elements, who are ready to spoil your children, whether she is a girl or boy. Recently whatever happened with a girl named Shraddha is horrible, though she was adult, but why was she in a live in relationship? Why was she away from parents ? The root is here. The same thing I was talking about. Why children can’t be friends? Why parents can’t be their best guides ? They can become, because they are the most reliable well wishers of them. If parents and children share everything happening in the society, discuss about them and exchange point of views and then establish the correct concept about why this was wrong ? Who was guilty? And how one can protect himself or herself from such mistakes. Also what would happen if such mistakes are done by youngsters and what would be the consequences of such mistakes? Those mistakes will might become the greatest regret of life, and the main destination will lost in this mess. Children are our assets and must be taken care very carefully. We know all parents are not educated, and can’t guide, but they inspire , support, we see many examples in society where the youngsters reached at high level posts, belong to very poor families. Some of such children are really self made they find their ways, they do hard work with full dedication and achieve their destination. Poverty makes children hardy, they better understand the scarcity of money in their house, and this tough living make them strong towards their studies or works, and they achieve their goal on their own, find the way on their own. No data can be 100% proven truth because crimes also born mostly in poor and uneducated families, but being friends, guide of your children will bring best results is almost true !!
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