Today’s Tip !! We & Social Media !!

 Today’s Tip !! We & Social Media !! 

Once upon a time all of us were very much alert about social media people. A girl who was talking to a boy of her own school in the street seen by her neighbour whom she had not seen, but this news reached her mom before she arrives home, now when she reaches, she is scolded hard and might be beaten, the news was conveyed to Dad and he also starts teaching and preaching her, but when next time again the girl seen with the same boy by father’s one of friends and he immediately convey the news to her father, the girl might be beaten hard , might be her name withdrawn from school, soon she might get married to a boy selected by parents and sent with the groom to in law’s house in another village or town.This was the strongest social media. Now about marriagesA Guruji ( Family Pundit ) or in villages “ Naayeen “ ( Barbar’s wife ) or some senior Chachi or Buaa used to be the main source of fixing marriages, so that was the social media at that time. When towns developed and people started living in multi-storey building , some talkative women always became source of spreading news about what is happening in which flat, also the house help women used to do such works. This news mostly changed its originality because of the salt& spices sprinkled by each person who forwards it. Many times it became fun and many times it became a reason of big fight too among the forwarding people. Landline telephone never used for gossip, but of course it was a big source of helpline of Police, firefighters, or Ambulance or special promotions by a known powerful higher authority or politician. Then we got the small mobile phone in our pocket and we found the whole world in our pocket. Internet really made the world a global village. Everyone now a days is connected to all living anywhere in the world, everyone shares his happiness through all types of celebrations or sad news also reaches within a minute to all over the world.No need to write about today’s social media we have thousands of known or unknown friends on FB or Instagram. Gradually each person knows another. If you want to share your any special moments, quality, you can share it with this fasted way and you have many people as readers, viewers, Appreciate you and this naturally gives you inspiration to do more good things.You can find your old friends within a minute from this social media platform, which is the happiest experience we can have with this new social media. We are the active part of our government as social media acts a positive role in making government, controlling their activities and even guiding them to batter . Complete world is getting better day by day with the strength of this social media !!

Dharm & Darshan !! Samrat Ashok Mahan !

 5 अप्रैल 2025 चक्रवर्ती सम्राट अशोक महान की जयंती पर कोटि-कोटि नमन..जय  सम्राट अशोक महान

सम्राट अशोक महान मौर्य ने सिर्फ 84,000 स्तूप चैत्य ही नही बनाया, उन्होंने  52 ,00,000 लाख वर्ग किलोमीटर भारत का क्षेत्रफल भी बनाया जिसे अखंड भारत कहां जाता था,नालंदा तक्षशिला विक्रमशिला जैसे कई विश्वविद्यालय बनावाए,थे जिससे विदेश से लोग शिक्षा ग्रहण करने भारत आते 

थे!!

इसलिये चक्रवर्ती सम्राट अशोक को महान सम्राट कहा जाता है...

1.सम्राट अशोक के समय मे ही भारत को "सोने की चिडियाँ"कहा जाता था

2.आज विदेशो मे जो बौद्ध धम्म फैला हुआ है इसका सारा श्रेय सम्राट अशोक को ही जाता है

3.सम्राट अशोक का साम्राज्य लगबग सारे आशिया खंड पर था.

4.भारत का राष्ट्रीय प्रतीक,राजमुद्रा,राष्ट्रीय चिन्ह "अशोक चक्र " ही है(ये विश्वरत्न,डॉ.बाबासाहेब आंबेडकर की ही देन है)

5.पुरे आशिया मे रास्तो के दोनो बाजू मे पेड लगाने की शुरुवात सम्राट अशोक ने ही की थी.

6.मनुष्य के साथ जानवरों के लिये भी औषधालय की शुरुवात करनेवाले पहले राजा सम्राट अशोक है.

7. "धर्मनिरपेक्षता " प्रतीक के पहले राजा सम्राट अशोक ही थे

8.भारत मे शिलालेखो (पत्थरों पर लिखाई करना ) की शुरुवात सम्राट अशोक ने की थी

9.तथागत गौतम बुद्ध के संबंधित स्थानो की धम्मयात्रा करने वाले पहले राजा सम्राट अशोक है

10. "सम्राटों का सम्राट’,ये उपाधी भारत में केवल सम्राट अशोक को मिली है

11.सम्राट अशोक आशिया खंड पर राज कारनेवाला इकलौते भारतीय सम्राट है

12.यज्ञ मे पशुओ की हत्या पर रोक सम्राट अशोक ने लगाई थी

13.अपने राज्य के लोगो की जनगणना (Census) कारनेवाले भारत के पहले सम्राट है

Today’s Tip !! We & Our Death !!

 Today’s Tip !! We & our death !! 

Each one who comes in this world has to go back. Who is alive will be dead one day. We have the time limit from birth to death, when we stay alive. We born in different families with different statues and different religions. Each one of us have specific relationship with our GOD. To whom we think we are responsible. We do good to get good returns from World and also we want to do good Karma as our religion teaches us about the rebirth based upon our karmas. No one intentionally does bad works or crimes. Those who do such , either they do it circumstantially or they unfortunately born in such families where they are not taught, or they have not got in touch of some good people who could teach them these things. So we born in different families and we do our best , we try best making good careers, earn good through fair means. These days we see many of us earn by unfair ways, though they are on highest posts.We see bribery in almost all departments, Do they not taught, or they have forgotten the base line of our birth death and the judgement after death. I specially feel very sorry when I see how  Doctors earn from human bodies. They simply use human body for money. Many times they put it on Ventilator to earn more money. They prescribe different tests even they are not necessary. Most of the deliveries are done by operations they even don’t try for natural delivery. The big hospitals are like five star hotels, and provide different packages. For regaining this amount they fix the earning targets and they get it any how. Today in the morning I got the news of Manoj Kumar’s death. I didn’t believe and so I did Google check , it was true. Today media had more big news regarding waqf bill so there was no news about Manoj Kumar’s death. I then thought, he entertained us many decades, produced and directed many very good films about devotion towards country, but then I thought Manoj Kumar is not feeling any difference whether we remembering him or not , he has left his body and his soul has reached to Parampita Parmatma. He went silently, everyone who comes in this world, has to go back alone, whether he is a poor guy or a multimillionaire.We can not take anything even a small piece of straw . Our death comes silently and takes us silently!!

Pure Gold !!

1.No matter how badly someone treats you ,never drop down to their level ,remain calm stay strong, walk away ! 

2. Never respond to insults,the main purpose of an insulter is to make you act without thinking,frustrate, them with silence.

3. Never respond to rudeness,when people are rude to you, they reveal who the are ,not who you are, don’t take it personally, stay silent.

4. Never get tired of doing little things for others ,sometimes those little things occupy,the biggest part of their hearts.

5.Be grateful for every sunset and thankful for every Sunshine.because every Day is a blessing.

6. Thoughts have energy make sure yours are positive.

7.Every next level of your life will demand a different you.

8. Little adjustment is always better than lengthy argument,A meaningful silence is always better than meaningless words.

9.Being alone doesn’t lead to loneliness,being disconnected does.

10.Once you decide to see the joy in life your health will change your relationships will change,and you will discover,how truly and amazing you are . 

11. There are only two days in the year That nothing can be done one is yesterday and another is tomorrow,to  do ,to  love to believe and mostly to live. 

12.The impossible starts to become more possible,once you start believing in yourself.

13.The best math you can learn is to calculate,the future cost of current decisions.

14.One of the hardest lessons in life is letting go, Whether it’s guilt, anger,love , loss or betrayal.Change is never easy ,we fight to hold on ,and we fight to let go.

15.You have the power to protect your peace.

16.There is no greater  wealth in the world than peace of mind.

17.Every difficulty comes with hidden blessing.

18.Your mind is your greatest friend,if you control it,but your mind is your greatest enemy,if it controls you.

19.Failures mistakes rejection,they need to exist so that they can push you to the next level,so don’t hate them.

20  The real growth is when you start correcting yourself  instead of blaming others .

21.Life never seems to be the way we want it,but we live in the best way we can, there is no perfect life but we can fill it with perfect moments.

Laughter !!

 Doctor : Your Liver is enlarged

Patient : Does that mean it has space for more whisky ?

(This is called "Positive Thinking" 

Lady to her dietician :- What l am worried about is my height and not my weight.

Doc :- How come???

Lady :- According to my weight, my height should be 7.8 feet... 

(Now this is called "Positive Attitude" 

A Man wrote to the bank. "My Cheque was returned with remark 'Insufficient funds'. I want to know whether it refers to mine or the Bank".

(This is self confidence in its peak 

A cockroach's last words to a man who wanted to kill it : "Go ahead and kill me, you coward. You're just jealous because I can scare your wife and you cannot..!!!!" 

Son : Why is 1st April celebrated as Fools Day?

Father : Because after paying all the taxes up to 31st March, we Start working for the government again from 1st April ...... 

*Best answer ever*

"Wife ask - why in all marriages girl sits on left side and boy on right side?

"Husband reply - According to profit and loss statement a/c all income is on right side and expenses are on left side".....

😄Happy march ending.😄😜

Today’s Tip !! GOD & We !!

 Today’s Tip !! GOD & We !! 

When we are little children, we are introduced to GOD by our parents. We see the idols in the temples and at our home. We at that time have lots of curiosities about GOD and we ask lots of questions to our parents. Our parents satisfy us at their best. We now have the image in our little brains, GOD is everywhere and he sees everything, we can’t see him but he is seeing us every moment,so one must not hurt anyone, must not do anything wrong ,which is not ethical, and against social limitations, we at that time taught many ideal things like speak the truth, never speak lies, respect elders and help the poor and needy people. GOD has everyone’s passbook in his hands and he noted down each good and bad deed of us, he deposits money for good work in our passbook and he deducts rupees if we do wrong works. So we are alert but we are human beings and we do mistakes, many times we lie but we say “ O ‘GOD Please forgive me for this, we do many things which are unethical, we do have many wrong habits like consuming alcohol or smoking at our teen age we might get attracted towards wrong people ( according to psychology it’s very natural in adolescence) and we might do many socially prohibited things if we are not properly guided by elders, because of course we are children at that time and not properly educated in such matters.Keen eye and proper guidance or counselling must be given at this age. If a child belongs to a family where GOD’S existence is very much prominent, GOD keeps keen eye on such innocent children and just because children also keeps in touch with GOD’S presence, GOD brings them out of dangers. We usually feel this that GOD is always there with us and he pulls us from bog, which was next to impossible without GOD’S blessings. This way GOD makes us feel his existence and gradually we come nearer to him. We fully trust him, we pray to him, we try doing good works to deposit more and more rupees in our Passbook which GOD is holding in his hands. We try not to hurt anyone and help the needy people we now don’t want any deductions from our this saving account. No doubt GOD is always there around us, watching us and our activities, and helps us in tough times. Many times we feel that some cunning people, who do many unethical activities and still they have huge money and enjoying luxuries of life , but we must not jealous of them because might be their passbook is empty which is in GOD’S hands. Trust GOD , Pray to him, leave everything on him , you do your work fairly, try not doing wrong to anyone or hurt anyone. And then forget about the results, the result will be always in your favour. Always remember “ Karma “ based theory of sanatan dharma , whatever is sow so shall you reap, this is the base line of Karma , so do good and have good , GOD is making your way. !!

Today’s Tip !! Internet & Old people!!

 Today’s Tip !! Internet & Old people !! 

Like me and my husband spending retired life many are such examples. Now a days life is completely changed. Children- if daughters , get married and go to their in laws house, but mostly they are not found there also because maximum educated and career oriented do jobs, might be out of town or out of country with her husband and family. Same thing happens with son and daughter in law also and so the old couple, whether they are son’s parents or daughter’s parents stay behind alone. As we all know the first and second generation after independence family structure was different, it was combined family, in which males used to work and earn in fields owned by themselves or in own shops, and females used to do household works.In Indian families food was cooked twice a day ( do waqt ki roti describes this) so after lunch approximately at 12 old ladies used to go to the near by temples for keertan , each lady used to have manjeera in their cotton bag. 12 to 4 all ladies got busy singing bhajans , males used to have nap or reading newspaper or good books ( they used to become members of libraries, those days they had have facilities of getting books at their door steps through these home delivery libraries) females were mostly uneducated so they didn’t have this option. Then development brought tv and people had have a good common entertainment. Now a days we have internet and smart phones for using different entertaining social networking sites. We all know for children it’s addiction bringing bad results, and yes children should have a timetable a discipline to use smart phones, because their main work is to study. But for lonely couples this is a blessing. They can spend good time with smart phones. They can get connected with many friends and relatives on these platforms, share their happy moments of parties picnics or near or far tours, they share their birthday celebration and anniversary celebrations. In fact husband and wife don’t need each other’s company all the time because they are busy with their phones. The good part of this is they become good companions of each other’s , cooperative in all works equally, they don’t have time to argue or fight with each other. The best part is - one day when one of them will leave the world, I think other one won’t feel very lonely because his or her phone is with them. Their complete day occupied with walk , yoga , watching tv , or with smart phone. Most of them pray to GOD for welfare and good health of their children and their own good health too. I think smart phone is a blessing for old people, those who never knew operating this also like to watch reels and funny videos. Technology moving ahead and might bring some more and thrilling inventions for next generation of old people.!!