Dharavahik upanyas Bhoot-Adbhut!(122)

Samantha made up her mind to go and live in the district place. She could get more batter options for earning there and live a good life too. She made up her mind and told this to the sister ( missionary head ) she didn’t like her decision because missionary had have a purpose right from the beginning to spread Christian religion and for that many of them stayed here even after India’s freedom and they were Anglo Indians.Samantha didn’t agree with her and said she will do religious works there in the Church. Sister didn’t force her. Samantha went to the District place twice more with Bheema , She met Shalini and Kalyan Singh She also met Dr. Saxena who was treating Kamini Devi . Samantha was hopeful that she will get the job soon .Samantha went to the Church and introduced her self her qualifications. Sister, was impressed and she assured her to find a job of teacher ship for her either in their own mission school or any other school. And soon a very good offer was came in front of Samantha, the warden of the girls hostel recently went to Kerala permanently and the post was vacant. Samantha was perfect for that and this way her residence problem was solved too. She shifted on Sunday, brought her luggage in Bheema’s taxi. She got transferred her post office account from there to here and now she thanked GOD that her all problems are solved together. She thought “ Humans worry but GOD already had have solutions for humans problems.———- Continued—-

Amazing!!

 *Interesting Insight*

My mom wanted to send me homemade pickles. *But I said NO.* 

I was 27, living in New York, working on Wall Street. I didn't need pickles shipped across the world. The shipping would cost more than buying them here.

Three years later, I read the psychologist take on what I'd actually done. 

*When you reject someone's offer to help, you're not just declining assistance. You're declining their need to matter to you!*

Benjamin Franklin figured this out in 1736. He had a rival in the Pennsylvania legislature who hated him. Instead of trying to win him over with favors, Franklin asked the rival to lend him a rare book.

The rival agreed. They became lifelong friends.

*It's called the Ben Franklin effect.* 

When people do something for you, they convince themselves they must like you. Otherwise, why would they help?

My mom didn't want to send pickles because I needed them.

She wanted to send them because SHE needed to feel useful to me. To feel like despite the ocean between us, she still had a role in my life.

Every time I said "I'll manage," I was taking that away from her.

Here's what I learned after a decade of living away from home: *→ Accepting small favors isn't about you needing help. It's about letting people you love feel needed.

Your dad wants to transfer ₹5000 even though you earn well?  

*Let him.*

Your friend wants to pick you up from the airport even though Uber exists? 

*Say yes.*

Your partner wants to make you tea even though you can make it yourself?

*Accept it.*

*The people who love you don't want to solve your big problems. They want to matter in your small moments. 

 *Let them* ……*

Dharavahik upanyas Bhoot/ Adbhut!(121)

Coincidentally when Samantha was returning to her home she saw Bheema’s taxi. He waved his hand. Samantha asked him to stop and said” I will come to the district place tomorrow I want to meet Chaudhary Ji and his wife . Bheema agreed . Now Samantha needs to think about her future. In this small village she didn’t have any scope of good job and good earning. Next morning at eight in the morning she got ready. Bheema took her to the Asylum first. Samantha was shocked and couldn’t believe that the lady who used to be so hospitable to her is now lost her senses thinking power, When Vasanti took her to Kamini Devi Kamini Devi didn’t recognise her. Kalyan Singh also reached at the same time, it was Sunday and it was holiday for him. He described everything what had happened there in his presence and how all of them ran from there. Samantha also said that she would like to do job here at District place as there is no scope in the village. Kalyan Singh took her to the jail to meet Chandan Singh Chaudhary. When he saw Samantha he felt ashamed and turned his face. Kalyan Singh while returning back introduced Samantha with Shalini Devi  Samantha felt happy,They by were planning to get married within a month, Kalyan Singh then will start living in her quarter. Kalyan Singh said he will search a job for her, she will have to visit here in couple of days. She said “ Yes I will come here on Wednesday and meet Shalini as it will be your working day. Bheema came there to take back Samantha. ———— Continued —-

Dharavahik upanyas Bhoot-Adbhut! (120)

 Samantha also heard about these unusual accidental deaths. She still couldn’t accept what was the rumours spreading about. She used to go for long walk early in the morning. And usually her path was the same where the Haveli was So next early morning when she started her walk her steps automatically moved towards the same path. When she reached to the haveli she entered in the haveli without any fear. She had have all sweet memories about Kavita Kamini Shamu Chaudhary Chandan Singh All staff members even Raja. She used to feed candy to hi by her own hands. She reached to the study room it was the known place for her. She sat on her chair. She put her head on the table and closed her eyes. Tears were rolling from her eyes she after a minute felt some one else was there she looked up . Shamu was sitting on one chair Kavita’s seat was empty. Looking at him Samantha got scared, but Shamu asked her to go from there. He was just doing jesters. His eyes were full of respect about Samantha but he was very sad.She got up and came out of the Haveli.She then walked towards her home slowly. She didn’t feel herself scared.Instead she was feeling sad very sad about both the children and Raja. She decided to go to district to meet Chandan Chaudhary and Kamini Devi .————Continued——-

Dharavahik upanyas Bhoot-Adbhut!(119)

 Mahaveer felt good with Gangadas’s assurance.He then said ,” But we have to inform about the three dead bodies of Nathu, Jagga and Binda and the dead bodies must be removed from the place otherwise they will smell badly. Gangadas and Durgadas both agreed and they described this to some of their neighbours. They all decided to go there. But all of them were scared but this work must be done anyway. They all collected strength and then the arranged the things for funeral of  dead bodies and reached to the Haveli. All of them divided themselves in three groups and went to different places directed by Mahaveer. They found the dead bodies as described by Mahaveer the put them on Bamboo stretcher and took them to the funeral place. It took them about one hour to complete these works. Haveli was silent and nothing happened there. All of them did bath on the well which was at the funeral place and then all of them came back and went to their own homes. Gangadas then went to the Police station and reported about the incident. Police just recorded it in their register they were not interested in going to haveli or do any investigations. Haveli’s horrifying incidents were well known to all.Mahaveer when saw the dead bodies thanked GOD again and again and promised always earn money by doing hard work. ————Continued ———-

Dharavahik upanyas Bhoot-Adbhut! (118)

Samantha reached home. She was tired not because of the journey but the Sad incidents of Haveli made her tired. She thought her main income was coming from Haveli. Chaudhary Chandan Singh was so good to her always on first day of the month her salary was given to her she never needed to ask. On festivals she always got extra money to celebrate the festival also box of sweets was given to her on every festival. She used to have a cup of tea with biscuits there every day. Kamini Devi was also very polite to her. Samantha always updated both the parents about her studies. Now that income is stopped and she needs to search a job. She knew in this village getting tuition is too tough because those days there were just primary schools and Parents didn’t take any interest in sending their children to the school.Though the were government schools and teachers were already coming there to teach. Missionary has have its own school in their colony but very few children were studying there as students from Christian families were coming there who were living there. Still Samantha was hopeful for her future. Chaudhary Chandan Singh had given her quite good amount of money during her visit to London but she also had withdrawn maximum of her deposited money from Post office and she had spent all because of the big difference in value of Rupee and Pound. ————- Continued—-

Today’s tip We & Our Smart Phone !!

Once  upon a time when a letter arrived at someone’s house, everyone would get worried because they feared it brought bad news communication was slow so sudden mail often meant an emergency, illness or death in family.those days everyone’s routine was totally different from today. Housewives used to talk with neighbouring ladies after finishing their works.It was a news exchange time and everyone could know many informations from each other. Old ladies used to go to the temple for doing Keertan twelve to four it was also a news exchanging place. And males used to get informations in their offices from their colleagues. Now a days all of us have Smartphone with us and it’s our companion morning till night. We are on social media and whole world’s news of every minute is in our pocket, It’s an alarm we can wake up Early , it’s an platform we can write dance sing, become orator sell and buy things online, do banking, buy and book journey tickets train or plane, we post our views on any such topic which is very important in current situation. It counts our steps and all health data too. It connects us to all our near and dear one each moment and it also connects us to new friends. It’s an compulsory part of our life we can’t afford to lose it.And now a days hacking of phone becomes a reason of many crimes. Police can find the culprit by tracking the IMEI numbers. We should be alert regarding fake calls or calls by the criminals they can steal all our Bank deposits in a minute if we do any mistake carelessly. It’s a boon it’s a curse, it’s distracting children from studies and Many children died of Playing dangerous games.