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Train reached right time at Delhi. Nirmal got down and felt too tired and restless. He decided to go straight to AIIMS. He had only one backpack so he had no problem. He got down and caught an auto. When he reached AIIMS Dr. Kartik was there and about to leave as his duty hours were over. When he saw Nirmal in bad condition, he called the ward boy. Nirmal handed over his backpack to Dr. Kartik , asked him to keep it safe. Dr. Kartik put that in his cabin’s locker, till that time the ward boys came with stretcher and took Nirmal to the X-ray room asked by Dr. Kartik. X-ray technician immediately took the X-ray. The print was to be received after One hour so Dr. Kartik gave him the missed injection and medicine so that he could get a little bit comfort. Nirmal requested Dr. Kartik to inform his mother, he gave a slip to him on which phone number of the front shopkeeper written. Dr. Kartik nodded his head and asked him to take rest. Nirmal was feeling a little bit drowsy and he closed his eyes.After one hour when Dr. Kartik saw his X-ray he found lung damaged increased. ——-Continued—-

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Somesh Gaur and Nirmal  straight way went to the railway station. Somesh Gaur was lonely person so he had no hurry going back home.They we’re sitting in waiting room and talked a lot on every aspect whatever happened and what would be the result .Nirmal said , We had given five lacs cash as dowry, mummy had given approximately most of the jewellery which we had have, then for fridge tv dining table we spent about fifty thousand and now about one lac again, and still they are hungry. We thought our daughters are getting married to rich family so they will be happy always but the scenario is totally different , Uncle you visit there as surprise visit , this can change their behaviour.Nirmal  now wanted to reach Delhi and convey all the things happened here to Parvati Devi and also he wanted to go and meet Dr. Kartik and know about the effects of this gap in his treatment. He was feeling clearly the change in coughing and restlessness. Somesh Gaur was also worried about Nirmal’s illness, and Amita and Usha’s situation After all they were his dear friend’s children The train arrived at the right time. Nirmal climbed up and found his berth. When train started moving both the persons waved their hands.——— Continued—-

Today’s tip : Marathi !!

 Validation Addiction — मान्यतेचं व्यसन

तीने नवीन साडी घातली.

फोटो काढला. स्टेटस टाकलं.

दर ५ मिनिटांनी फोन उघडून बघते..

किती views? किती replies?

त्याने नवीन प्रोजेक्ट पूर्ण केला.

घरी येऊन शांत बसला.

पण ऑफिसमध्ये कोणी “well done” म्हटलं नाही म्हणून रात्रभर त्याचा mood off.

लहान मुलगा चित्र काढतो.

आई म्हणते, “छान आहे.”

तो लगेच विचारतो — “खरंच? की फक्त बोलतेस?”

ही सगळी एकच गोष्ट आहे —

Validation Addiction.

Validation म्हणजे काय?

इतरांनी आपल्याला मान्यता देणं.

आपण चांगले आहोत, सुंदर आहोत, यशस्वी आहोत —

हे बाहेरून ऐकायची गरज.

मान्यता हवी असणं नैसर्गिक आहे.

पण जेव्हा आपली किंमत फक्त वारंवार  इतरांच्या शब्दांवर अवलंबून होते —

तेव्हा ती सवय व्यसन बनते.

आजची पिढी दुखावलेली नाही…

ती approval वर जगायला शिकली आहे.

Like कमी आले तर mood off.

Partner ने appreciate केलं नाही तर insecurity.

Boss ने कौतुक केलं नाही तर self-doubt.

आपण इतके बाहेरच्या टाळ्यांवर अवलंबून झालो आहोत

की आतला आवाज ऐकणं विसरलो आहोत.

Validation Addiction ची मोठी समस्या काय?

ती आपल्याला कायम भुकेलं ठेवते.

आज १० लोकांनी कौतुक केलं तर छान वाटतं.

उद्या ८ लोकांनी केलं तर कमी वाटतं.

परवा ५ लोकांनी केलं तर दुःख होतं.

कारण व्यसन वाढत जातं.

मानसिक आरोग्यासाठी सर्वात धोकादायक गोष्ट म्हणजे —

स्वतःची किंमत दुसऱ्यांच्या प्रतिक्रियेत शोधणं.

जर तुमचा आत्मविश्वास

like, comment, appreciation, promotion

यावर उभा असेल —

तर तो कायम हलणार.

खरी ताकद कुठे आहे?

Self-validation मध्ये.

स्वतःला विचारणं —

मी माझ्या मूल्यांनुसार वागलो का?

मी माझ्या परीने प्रामाणिक प्रयत्न केला का?

मी स्वतःच्या नजरेत ठीक आहे का?

जर उत्तर “हो” असेल,

तर बाहेरचं कौतुक बोनस आहे…

गरज नाही.

Validation Addiction मध्ये माणूस लोकांना खूश ठेवतो.

Self-respect मध्ये माणूस स्वतःशी प्रामाणिक राहतो.

आज depression चं एक मोठं मूळ म्हणजे

आपण स्वतःला स्वतः मान्यता देत नाही.

आपण स्वतःला टाळ्या देत नाही.

आपण स्वतःला “मी पुरेसा आहे” असं म्हणत नाही.

लक्षात ठेवा —

जगाचं approval बदलत राहील.

तुमची किंमत बदलत नाही.

मनाची मोठी सवय म्हणजे —

टाळ्यांची वाट पाहू नका…

स्वतःला शांतपणे मान्यता द्या.

कारण जेव्हा आत्मसन्मान आतून उभा राहतो,

तेव्हा बाहेरच्या टाळ्या फक्त आवाज असतात !! 

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Listening Nirmal’s statement all Shukla’s got shuddered, They were shocked, how did Nirmal know that her sisters work like servants. Might because there is no servant in the house, but there was no servant before their arrival too. Janki Devi was doing all the works on her own. The girls were also habitual of doing household works at their parents house then what is bad in it to do household works at their husband’s house. No one spoke for two minutes. Nirmal made the atmosphere light by saying, “ It is said in Hindu culture that after Kanyadan, daughters family members must not even drink water at their house. But look at me I am having lunch here. No body laughed or commented on his statement and Nirmal felt shy. After lunch Somesh Gaur and Nirmal got up and took leave by saying that he had to catch the train. Both the sisters hugged again with tears in eyes. Nirmal said ,” This is your home now, respect your elders and property take care of your husbands. “ he was covering up his previous statements. But everything was now useless.———- Continued ——

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She was surprised to see her elder brother, she hugged him and till that time Usha also came there and she also hugged Nirmal. Both the girls were dropping tears from their eyes without any words. Brajesh Shukla called his wife Janki Devi , she was shocked to see Nirmal but immediately changed her expression and welcomed him. Brajesh Shukla said , “ I think lunch is ready so come let’s have lunch. They entered in he dining room.There was a big dining table with twelve chairs. A coloured tv kept on the corner and a fridge in another corner. All these things were bought last time and paid by Nirmal. Nirmal and Somesh Gaur sat on two of the chairs. Janki Devi herself started serving. It was simple food but she had sent the neighbourhood boy to buy thick milk sweet ( Rabdi ) . Today Nirmal was strong. He said to Amita and Usha “ Why don’t you call us ? You have telephone in your home. Mummy feels worried about both of you.It’s your home now and you have right to call us and talk to us. You are not servants here, properly got married with two sons of this house.” He then laughed loudly to make the atmosphere light. He already had done what ever he wanted to do.——- Continued———

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Somesh Gaur, Nirmal and both the son in law’s were ready to go and buy bikes when suddenly Brajesh Shukla got up from the cash counter and asked his assistant to take care he will be back in just half an hour. All of them caught two rickshaws and reached to the show room . The salesman welcomed them all and asked what did the want to by. Dharmendra told him about the latest model of bike recently launched. Devendra was also agreed. The salesman showed many bikes shining with different colours. After forty five minutes of discussion both of them selected two bikes. Nirmal and Somesh Gaur went to the cash counter and payed the large amount. The salesman said give me the add I will bring them filling petrol tank. Dharmendra gave his address and moved towards all. Brajesh Shukla asked both of them “ Are you happy now ? They nodded their heads.Brajesh Shukla didn’t ask Nirmal to come along and have food. But Nirmal himself said , “ I want to meet my sisters, I have come here to see them .” Brajesh Shukla couldn’t deny and then all of them suddenly reached Brajesh Shukla’s home. The door was opened by Amita , holding cooking spoon in her hand. ——— Continued——

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Parvati Devi packed his bag during free time. These days there are less customers on the shop so she had even more free time. Nirmal and Parvati Devi talked about the present situation. They thought , hopefully after fulfilling this demand Brajesh Shukla won’t demand anything. They didn’t know as much as they feed the Dowry domen his hunger will increase.Nirmal said , “ But Mummy my injections? “ “ You can continue after coming back , she said “ before One hour Nirmal got ready and came out to catch the rickshaw. He couldn’t sleep on his berth too because of the money he was holding and coughing was making him restless. He reached Jalandhar on time. Somesh Uncle was present there to receive him . Both of them went home. Nirmal got freshen up .After shower he felt a little good. Somesh uncle was not knowing about his Tuberculosis and he didn’t want him to know that. After having breakfast in a restaurant, both of them went to Brajesh Shukla’s shop as shops were opened that day.After formal wishing each other, Brajesh Shukla asked , “ So , what have you decided? Nirmal said We are ready to buy bikes for both Jitendra and Devendra. Brajesh Shukla becam very happy to hear that. He called both his sons and asked them to go with Nirmal to Motorcycle show room. Both of them looked each other and smiled. ———- Continued ——-