Dharm & Darshan : Life & Me !!

 हम जितने साल जी चुके हैं  उससे अब कम साल हमें जीना है। यह समझ आने के बाद यह परिवर्तन ज़रूरी है :

१. किसी प्रियजन की विदाई से अब मैं रोना छोड़ चुका हूँ क्योंकि आज नहीं तो कल मेरी बारी है।

२. उसी प्रकार,अगर मेरी विदाई अचानक हो जाती है, तो मेरे बाद लोगों का क्या होगा, यह सोचना भी छोड़ दिया है क्योंकि मेरे जाने के बाद कोई भूखा नहीं रहेगा।

३. सामने वाले व्यक्ति के पैसे, पावर और पोजीशन से अब मैं डरता नहीं हूँ।

४. खुद के लिए सबसे अधिक समय निकालता हूँ। मान लिया है कि दुनिया मेरे कंधों पर टिकी नहीं है। मेरे बिना कुछ रुकने वाला नहीं है।

५. छोटे व्यापारियों और फेरीवालों के साथ मोल-भाव करना बंद कर दिया है। कभी-कभी जानता हूँ कि मैं ठगा जा रहा हूँ, फिर भी हँसते-मुस्कुराते चला जाता हूँ।

६. कबाड़ उठाने वालों को फटी या खाली तेल की डिब्बी वैसे ही दे देता हूँ, पच्चीस-पचास रुपये खर्च करता हूँl जब उनके चेहरे पर लाखों मिलने की खुशी देखता हूँ तो खुश हो जाता हूँ।

७. सड़क पर व्यापार करने वालों से कभी-कभी बेकार की चीज़ भी खरीद लेता हूँ।

८. बुजुर्गों और बच्चों की एक ही बात कितनी बार सुन लेता हूँ। कहने की आदत छोड़ दी है कि उन्होंने यह बात कई बार कही है।

९. गलत व्यक्ति के साथ बहस करने की बजाय मानसिक शांति बनाए रखना पसंद करता हूँ।

१०. लोगों के अच्छे काम या विचारों की खुले दिल से प्रशंसा करता हूँ। ऐसा करने से मिलने वाले आनंद का मजा लेता हूँ।

११. ब्रांडेड कपड़ों, मोबाइल या अन्य किसी ब्रांडेड चीज़ से व्यक्तित्व का मूल्यांकन करना छोड़ दिया है। व्यक्तित्व विचारों से निखरता है, ब्रांडेड चीज़ों से नहीं, यह समझ गया हूँ।

१२. मैं ऐसे लोगों से दूरी बनाए रखता हूँ जो अपनी बुरी आदतों और जड़ मान्यताओं को मुझ पर थोपने की कोशिश करते हैं। अब उन्हें सुधारने की कोशिश नहीं करता क्योंकि कई लोगों ने यह पहले ही कर दिया है।

१३. जब कोई मुझे जीवन की दौड़ में पीछे छोड़ने के लिए चालें खेलता है, तो मैं शांत रहकर उसे रास्ता दे देता हूँ। आखिरकार, ना तो मैं जीवन की प्रतिस्पर्धा में हूँ, ना ही मेरा कोई प्रतिद्वंद्वी है।

१४. मैं वही करता हूँ जिससे मुझे आनंद आता है। लोग क्या सोचेंगे या कहेंगे, इसकी चिंता छोड़ दी है। चार लोगों को खुश रखने के लिए अपना मन मारना छोड़ दिया है।

१५. फाइव स्टार होटल में रहने की बजाय प्रकृति के करीब जाना पसंद करता हूँ। जंक फूड की बजाय बाजरे की रोटी और आलू की सब्जी में संतोष पाता हूँ।

१६. अपने ऊपर हजारों रुपये खर्च करने की बजाय किसी जरूरतमंद के हाथ में पाँच सौ हजार रुपये देने का आनंद लेना सीख गया हूँ। और हर किसी की मदद पहले भी करता था और अब भी करता हूँ।

१७. गलत के सामने सही साबित करने की बजाय मौन रहना पसंद करने लगा हूँ। बोलने की बजाय चुप रहना पसंद करने लगा हूँ। खुद से प्यार करने लगा हूँ।

१८. मैं बस इस दुनिया का यात्री हूँl मैं अपने साथ केवल वह प्रेम,आदर और मानवता ही ले जा सकूंगा जो मैंने बाँटी हैl यह मैंने स्वीकार कर लिया है।

१९. मेरा शरीर मेरे माता-पिता का दिया हुआ हैl आत्मा परम कृपालु प्रकृति का दान है और नाम परिवार वालों का दिया हुआ है... जब मेरा अपना कुछ भी नहीं है, तो लाभ-हानि की क्या गणना?

२०. अपनी सभी प्रकार की कठिनाइयाँ या दुख लोगों को कहना छोड़ दिया है, क्योंकि मुझे समझ आ गया है कि जो समझता है उसे कहना नहीं पड़ता और जिसे कहना पड़ता है वह समझता ही नहीं।

२१. अब अपने आनंद में ही मस्त रहता हूँ क्योंकि मेरे किसी भी सुख या दुख के लिए केवल मैं ही जिम्मेदार हूँl यह मुझे समझ आ गया है।

२२. हर पल को जीना सीख गया हूँ क्योंकि अब समझ आ गया है कि जीवन बहुत ही अमूल्य हैl यहाँ कुछ भी स्थायी नहीं हैl कुछ भी कभी भी हो सकता है, ये दिन भी बीत जाएँगे।

२३. आंतरिक आनंद के लिए मानव सेवा, जीव दया और प्रकृति की सेवा में डूब गया हूँl मुझे समझ आया है कि अनंत का मार्ग इन्हीं से मिलता है।

२४. प्रकृति और देवी-देवताओं की गोद में रहने लगा हूँl मुझे समझ आया है कि अंत में उन्हीं की गोद में समा जाना है।

देर से ही सही, लेकिन समझ आ गया हैl शायद मुझे जीना आ गया हैl 

Dharavahik upanyas Bhoot -Adbhut!(15)

When all the four mothers reached to Vishakha’s  mother to know about the haveli , she also said that she is also unaware of the reality But I need and whatever the rumours are we can’t trust that as they are not authentic. But I have an idea , there is an old man named Mathura Das, I have heard that his father Jamnadas was the gardener at that time and as he was a child at that time and living in the servants quarters in Chandan Singh’s haveli , he knew many things and incidents happened those days in the haveli. She said , “ But I need to ask Vishakha’s father first. I will ask him as general thing because We can’t disclose that our daughters spent a complete night outside in the Chandan Singh’s haveli. At the moment you please go, I am also worried about the consequences. All the mothers went back to their homes.Vishakha also had the same idea in her mind to go and meet Mathuradas . Next day all of them had to go to school because holidays were over now. In school all the five girls were serious and the effect of the night in haveli was looking on their faces.——Continued ————

Today’s tip !! We & our planet !!

Recently I visited to Delhi, when I was coming out of a mall , I found it was red signal of traffic light so as we all know these days traffic is getting worse day by day, it’s making all type of pollutions, sound pollution is at it’s peak, every one is honking the horns, they know there is no use, till the lights get green , till the way opens for the traffic to move ahead , nothing can be done.Nothing can be heard in this irritating noise, this noise pollution damages hearing by causing over stimulation in hearing and kills cells of inner ears. There is no rule no law for it but everyone should think about it in wider reference. Before the introduction of CNG the pollution was more than now a days but still, if you are riding a scooter or sitting in a battery rickshaw and trapped in such traffic, you will have to keep hanky on your nose and mouth because of the sharp smell of petrol or smoke around. Now let’s talk about animals ! Are you surprising? When I came out of that mall in Delhi, where traffic was already stopped due to red light , suddenly a group of cows came running from front side, it was horrifying for me and any how I could climb a footpath to protect myself, one of the cows was trying to eat a banana leaf , which was outside a small temple by the side of that road. Animals are openly moving on the road , means the bus the car the taxi is on road and group of cows are also on the road. Don’t you think it should be stopped and like UP there should be goshaala to keep these cows protected.It is shocking that number of all types of animals declined 73% from 1970-2020 , Increased human population, cutting jungles , and water level is also declining at alarming rate,Scientists trying hard to solve the problem of ozone layer’s hole. Our foods our water the air we inhale our plants our trees, everything is getting worse day by day. Everyone needs to think about it . 

Dharavahik upanyas Bhoot -Adbhut!(14)

All girls faced almost the same questions and clarified the same. All mothers were scared hearing the haveli reference as they all knew the truth heard by them or told to them by their Elders. Haveli was a symbol of horror as some people experienced horrifying experiences. They belong to other villages and went to the haveli by intention of occupying the property. They couldn’t run and got trapped there for a night  by the ghost of Shamu the caretaker of Chandan Singh’s White Arabian horse. Mothers felt scared and so scolded their daughters.The four mothers met and then went together to Vishakha’s mother to talk about the matter as it was the matter concerned with their family history. Girls were also scared they were assuming the ghost around them. Till that time they knew that the bullock cart rider was Shamu the ghost , caretaker of Vhandan Singh’s Arabian horse. They didn’t know the real history behind this, because people didn’t talk about the haveli and the ghost. It was scary for all and so they wanted to stay away from the matter. The haveli , Chandan Singh , Shamu all were a mystery for most of the people but some old people who knew the real history, still alive , Vishakha decided to go there to know the reality. ——- Continued ——-

Dharavahik upanyas Bhoot - Adbhut!( 13)

All the passengers got down at the fair but Vishakha said “ We want to go back to the village, Please help us going back to village. It was the time when people used to be very helpful. The conductor said don’t worry let the bus fill with passengers and we’ll take you to the village. Within half n hour the bus was full of passengers and the bus moved to opposite direction and within forty five minutes it reached to the village. All the girls gave the bus conductor some coins as fare but he didn’t accept and the girls hurriedly got down and rushed to their homes. Mummies were waiting for them as they had hidden the absence of their daughters from fathers saying that , Vishakha is at Vimla’s  house and  Vimla is at Manjula’s house and , Manjula is at Deepa’s house, Women are very clever to handle such situations. When all the mummies saw their daughters, took them to their bedrooms holding their hands and asked them what to explain their fathers if asked, then asked ,” Where were you whole night? When the girls described about how they reached to Chandan Singh’s haveli , and how could they escaped from there in the morning only, all mothers got scared and felt fear about the consequences. What would happen now ? Their faces became pale thinking about. ————-Continued ——— 

Dharavahik Upanyas Bhioot-Adbhut! ( 12)

All the girls were feeling  scared and trapped. They were whispering upto Sunrise. After Sunrise and hearing birds chirping, Vishakha collected her courage and came out of the hall. She thought we need to have courage and try hard to go out. She again went in and asked her friends to come out and try to go back home. At first they hesitated but then agreed , they came out, it was pleasant Sunrise, they opened the huge gate, it was not locked it was neat and clean and looking newly painted. They came out of the gate and started running towards the road. They heard horn of the bus, the bus was going towards the Fair, now what ? Vishakha still wave her hand and the driver stopped the bus, they quickly climbed cup the bus, the passengers , driver and conductor all started asking , Why did you go to the foot way ? Don’t you know it’s a horror haveli of  Chandan Singh , Ghost of his horse care taker Shamu’s ghost lives in that haveli and it’s said that who ever goes there the ghost catches him or her and it’s very very hard to get rid of him. He never harmed anyone but by mistake people go there and get trapped. These were the teachings passenger were talking about. ———— Continued ———-

Dharavahik upanyas Bhoot-Adbhut!(11)

 Vishakha couldn’t sleep after that thought. She then thought that why can’t we go now?She silently woke the friends up and asked them not to make noise, at first all of them surprised to see themselves in an unknown place, looking like a palace. Then they asked Vishakha in whispering sound, who brought us here, Vishakha put finger on her lips and asked them to follow. They came towards the door, it was royal door but it was opened , they felt relaxed and came out it was a long corridor and at the end there was one more door to go out. All of them moved towards that door without making any noise, they reached at the door and saw it was unlocked. Vishakha opened the door and a screen came out of her mouth, in fact all of them screamed together, the black dark muscles man was in front of them and smiling in that dark night and dark face his white teeth were looking scary. He asked , “ Where are you going girls ? It’s midnight “ Vishakha angrily asked him , “ You told us to take us to our village , why have you brought us here ? And who’s house is this looking like a palace. “ all the girls heard a scary laugh ,they were hiding behind one another but what happened next ? He asked Vishakha “Have you forgotten, it’s  your own house” What rubbish are you talking ? “ Oh Sorry I forgot, now it’s your great grand father’s house “ Chandan Singh’s Haveli “ When he spoke these words the girls again screamed and hugged each other. “Go back inside. His voice was cool “They all turned around and went back to the hall .” ———Continued——-