मेरे बारे में---Nirupama Sinha { M,A.{Psychology}B.Ed.,Very fond of writing and sharing my thoughts

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I love writing,and want people to read me ! I some times share good posts for readers.

शुक्रवार, 6 मार्च 2026

Dharavahik crime thriller (271)Apradh !!

It was the time 60’s 70’ s when to educate girls was common and girls also started doing simple jobs mostly teachers jobs were easily available and allowed by parents and most of their in law’s too. But the black shadow of previous Parda system though was gone a little bit not completely but the dowry system was taken a monstrous form and literally grooms were sold and bought according to their educational status and family backgrounds. During these decades bride abuse was considered as private family matter and burning brides were considered as kitchen accidents. Such way life of girls was not supported, not promoted never appreciated and in Nikita and Seema’s elope cases it was hidden by parents. Such parents used to think these acts as black spot on their name and fame. They never tried searching their daughters, if later on they come back , were mostly accepted by parents with their husbands and even if they were ditched they were also  accepted by their parents and provided chance again to restart their lives by studying and doing jobs and being independent. Teenagers used to be trapped in such false love affairs they were used and thrown away by bad boys who usually left these girls by saying that they are bound to follow  family tradition, or father’s promise to some other girl’s parents for marring with him.Most of the times they trapped girls by false promises of marriage. And thus spoil girls lives. The girls should have been taught properly about this. ———— Continued——

गुरुवार, 5 मार्च 2026

Dharavahik crime thriller (270) Apradh!!

Nirmal & Parvati Devi were fighting on many fronts together. Nirmal had to recover from tuberculous and they had to search Seema too. They were already facing the competition in business. When Parvati Devi came to the shop with lunch, she described whatever she told to Indoo Didi she also said that Indoo Didi will do the Publicity of this and now no one will ask any question.” Nirmal didn’t reply for this he couldn’t understand that was right or wrong. They had have their lunch together. Nirmal tallied the stock , took some money and went to buy some items for the shop. He came out and Parvati Devi warned him , “ Don’t go and search Seema , it will create rumours among our neighbours and that will be bad for us the worst defamation .Just forget about her, whatever is written in her destiny can’t be stopped by us. Let’s pray for her to be with good people and May GOD bless her with his grace. We are human beings and we are Puppets of our destiny. You only try to re establish your business and recover from your disease, eat good and take proper treatment. You can’t marry so both of us have to spend our life calmly.” Nirmal didn’t reply and caught an auto for Sadar Bazar .—————- Continued——

बुधवार, 4 मार्च 2026

Dharavahik crime thriller ( 269) Apradh !!

Next morning Parvati Devi went home early to cook food and bring for Nirmal. She didn’t want any enquiries from neighbours to reply about Seema so she tried not to be viewed by anyone. She entered inside and closed the door. But immediately heard knocking on the door, it was Indoo Didi the old widow, asked , “ Couldn’t you know about Seema ? Parvati Devi said ,” Oh Yes the boy is her class mate and they were really going for group study. While coming she met Nirmal who was going to Jalandhar so she became stubborn and Nirmal took her to Jalandhar, I was at the shop so I couldn’t know this ,Nirmal came back last evening and he told me all , about. I scolded him hard. Seema’s elder sisters insisted her to stay so Nirmal left her there.Somesh Gaur uncle ( my husband’s close friend) also asked Nirmal to keep her there so he left her there. “ Parvati Devi was watching her facial expressions and at last she found satisfaction but she suddenly asked “ What about her exams ? Ya , I know it’s loss of one complete year I also thought that , but Everyone there said , specially Somesh jee said that he has close relations with a private school’s principal and he will try her appearing in exams there and also further studies also there. At first I didn’t like this but now I also think that it’s better for her to live there her elder sisters will take care for her and later on will be married there. “ Now Indoo Didi was also looking satisfied she nodded her head and took leave. Parvati sighed , and closed the door , moved to kitchen .————- Continued——

मंगलवार, 3 मार्च 2026

Dharavahik crime thriller (268) Apradh !!

Both the mother  and the son talked on all aspects of the incident, Nirmal said , “ I will go and report to the Police station of our area” Parvati Devi said , “ It will be a defamation for us, no we can’t report to the police “ “ Then how would we find her” “ Let her go to hell “ Parvati Devi was in full anger. “ And how would we hide this from the neighbourhood people?” We’ll tell them that we have sent her for studies to Jalandhar, she is living with Somesh Uncle  and her both sisters are also in Jalandhar so they are taking care of her. “ This statement is suitable “ Nirmal thought “ he said okay, but we need to search her on our own way, without disclosing that she has eloped .” How would you search her ? Asked Parvati Devi ? At first I need to go to her school and take her school leaving certificate so that there must not be any enquiries from school . Then I will have to ask her classmates and find out who the boy was and is he also absent ? If I will get the correct answer I can go to his home and enquire about him but if he is not of that school’s student then We’ll have to find her through other way . I think I should privately enquire about the boy, and his activities and his residence too. This is all very complicated because all the shopkeepers know us for many years and they would certainly know about all this. Let’s think calmly about the sensitive matter. It’s too late you sleep here, Nirmal asked his mother. Both the mother and son went to bed but couldn’t sleep even for a minute. ————- Continued———-

सोमवार, 2 मार्च 2026

Today’s tip : You & Your life !!

 When people believe in you, it gives you courage and motivation. But when you believe in yourself, it gives you determination and infinite energy._*

 So,Don't start your day with broken pieces of yesterday.Everyday is a fresh start, a new beginning. Every morning we wake up is the first day of our new life.  Have faith in your blessings.

If you look at what you have in life, you'll always have more. If you look at what you don't have in life, you'll never have enough.The way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing.

Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people's thinking.

Life cannot be changed in a minute but decision taken in a minute changes everything in life. Always stay calm before you decide.

If you have the Spirit of Understanding everything in a Positive way. You'll Enjoy each and every Moment of Life, whether Pressure or Pleasure.

 Some people look for a beautiful place. Others make a place beautiful. Life is good as you make it!.

 Prayer is the Bridge between Panic and PEACE.

Fear is the main source of superstition, and one of the main sources of cruelty. To conquer fear is the beginning of wisdom.

TIME is a rare luxury which can never be purchased at any cost.  So when something spends it for you, It defines the depth of care they have for you...

And one has to understand that braveness is not the absence of fear but rather the strength to keep on going forward despite the fear.”

A leader is one who knows the way, goes the way, and shows the way.

Lovely times of life may not come back, but lovely relationship with lovely people will always remain evergreen in your memories!

Everyone may not be nice, but  there is something nice in everyone.

Don't Blame People For Disappointing You. Blame Yourself For Expecting Too Much From Them.

 If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive! TODAY ONWARDS LET'S forget all about past and forgive everyone by heart !!




Laughter !!

 

A man got a flat tyre right in front of a  Mental Hospital. He struggles to park his car on the side of the road.

He opens his car hood, gets a jack, spare wheel, wheel spanner, and unscrews the wheel with flat tyre. Unfortunately, all the four nuts roll and fall into the sewer drain. The manhole cover cannot be opened; the nuts disappeared in the drain.

The man looks desperately left and right and sits down discouraged on the sidewalk.

A patient of the hospital, who had observed the entire scene from the beginning through the fence of the facility shouted at him:

“Hey, you idiot! What are you doing here?”

He replies: 

“Don't ask questions, my friend. I got a flat tyre, and while changing the wheel, all four nuts fell into the drain.”

The patient retorts: “You're making things complicated for yourself! Just take a nut from each of the other wheels, and then you’ll have three per wheel. That'll hold until the next petrol pump or tyre repairing station!”

The man does as he is told and shouts to the patient: “And what are you doing in this mental hospital?”

The answer from the patient is legendary...

"We are here for madness, my friend, not for stupidity!”

*Madness* is one thing._

_*Stupidity* is another...!!!

Dharavahik crime thriller! !! (267) Apradh! !!

Nirmal had to stay fifteen days in hospital to get stable only. He came back home. Parvati Devi everyday was coming with food for him. When he was discharged, Parvati Devi couldn’t come as it was shop’s time. And when he reached at the shop, he found Parvati Devi was looking in great pain. He asked , “ What happened? “ she started sobbing, she said, “ Seema has eloped with a boy named Raju , I don’t know who is he and where they met. “ last night when I reached home,She was not at home the door was opened . I searched all over but didn’t find her.Our neighbour Indoo Didi ( Old and widow lady ) told me that for last many days a boy used to come, here, once I asked him, he said “ I am Seema’s class mate and I have come here for combined studies, I thought you’d have permitted for that” I don’t ask anything after that. But today I saw them going together, Seema was with a backpack, I asked her, “ Where are you going and why are you taking the backpack? Seema said ,” Teacher has called us to give important questions so I need to take all books.” I then don’t ask anything. But I am surprised she has not come back yet.”I requested Indoo Didi not to tell anybody this thing, let Nirmal come back from hospital and will decide what to do. “Nirmal couldn’t utter even a single word. He only murmured “ Oh GOD Please help me. I am very sorry for what I did to Nikita “ ———- Continued—-


Dharavahik crime thriller (271)Apradh !!

It was the time 60’s 70’ s when to educate girls was common and girls also started doing simple jobs mostly teachers jobs were easily availa...

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