Today's Tip. !!
No body is perfect in this world and everyone has come to the world with some specialities . So actually no one has right to criticise anyone because which quality he has have, you might be a big Zero in it. Never be judgemental towards anyone.Infant learns to hold the milk bottle, to touch the toy hanging up his cradle, and gradually he learns many things, to crawl, to sit with balance, to walk with balance etc. Learning is a process goes on throughout human life.first mother, then father, elder siblings teach him and then school classmates and teachers, teach him, neighbourhood people teach him and in old times mostly the books he was reading taught him a lot, then he creates ideas, some views and makes his own ideology. But it doesn't mean that he or she is perfect to handle all the situations arise in his life, or he won't be defeated by anyone, because if he is innocent he is simple he is fascinated by the ideal characters he had ridden he thinks all the people around are as ideal as those, but it's not true, and then he or she many times gets ditched by those whom he thought was his friends. I have written all the above matter is about my childhood time, or might be later on too. But this is time of technology and just after coming to this world, child learns to to swipe his mom or Dad'd phone to watch cartoons. Moms also think this is the best way making the baby busy, there are two aspects of this, either the child becomes addict of watching games ( most of the children) but if moms keep keen eye on him and fixing time to use phone then it will be a discipline act. This is true that today's children ( even in lower middle class )are experts in all type of online activities whether to make his own mom's estram card or buying cheap sugar online. So this is a very good thing they are walking with the time and definitely reach higher than their parents who are just doing works as labourers. Now we talk about one more aspect of this, everyone has a smart phone in his hand these days and he is free to post his views on social media platforms like Whatsapp, Facebook, insta gram, or he can forward the forwarded posts. Though there are laws to restrict the posts but Still many prohibited sites are within reach of teenagers, and the posts misguiding them. They don't understand what is right and what is wrong, who is right and who is wrong. He might gets confused, because these days social media teaches more than teachers and more than parents. What should we do then , the first thing is to be a friend of him, share your childhood funny experiences and gradually he will start sharing his day to day experience, details of his friends, talks among friend circle, their views, if the views are correct then no problem but if they are wrong you need to correct them with logical approach until he happily agree with you. It's very important, teenagers are tomorrow's citizens and they should know what is right for them, and their country, through which circumstance the country and the world Is going through, he should support the right policies of the right politician because country's progress will be the each citizen's progress and prosperity, this way for a bright future , we the parents must get alert and must do this work as a mission!!
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