Today’s Tip : Love yourself !!

 Maximum of the generation who born in 1950-1960 are brought up with the thought of doing welfare of others , respect elders, follow elders’s words, never disrespect them , Obey your teachers, love your youngsters, sacrificing own wishes or desires on elders word.Those who belongs to this generation are now at the age of 70 -75, they always thought about others, Obeyed elders, co operated colleagues,Women after being married obeyed in laws and being parents co operated their grown up children, always agreed to their suggestions even if their brain disagrees, they used to keep their self respect aside and obeyed them, helped them at the cost of their own ease of living.Of course their children ( Sons, daughters, son in laws or daughter in laws ) all are highly educated, doing jobs on high posts in India or abroad, when husband and wife both are working they need help for bringing up their children or other house hold, son’s parents are the best helpers as they are own family members, well wishers and very near to grandchildren you can see them in UK, America or in any big town of India dropping them to school or picking them up from schools,doing such babysitting. Nothing bad in it if properly get respected but one most important thing is that parents do struggle, facing hard times doing jobs get transferred and now when the children get settled they again have this parting with life partner, because in most of the cases children prefer one of them for help, might be because moms are free and dads are still working. I think this is the time for a old people to look at themselves, care for themselves and do whatever they had postponed throughout the life, visit the places they have dreamt always talk or chat with old school friends, visit sibling if they are in one town, attend family functions, eat healthy food do walking and exercises to keep fit . Life is not an unlimited data, they have right to enjoy this part of their life as they like.It’s my suggestion to old people “ You have loved all now you need to love yourself. !!