Today’s Tip !! ( Three) Woman- Woman !!
Throughout our life we see, mother, sister, and women with different relations.All of them we found sprinkling affection and care upon us. When we grow young a Woman as wife comes in our life. According to Indian culture in very old times child marriages were performed, the basic reason behind this was , the girl can be trained as husband’s parents want , and the girl feel herself a part of husband’s house, knows the way of life there, and become familiar to their lifestyle, While departing from parents house it was said that “ Now husband’s house is your own house, husband’s parents are your parents now, respect them, live there throughout your life.” Gradually this basic thing lost because girls started educating, they started doing jobs, they started earning equal to men, When they get married they are completely matured and they take this step wisely understanding. While in old time mainly marriages were settled marriages, both the families known to each other through the mediator and it was a guarantee. Then marriages through matrimonial started, people found them easier way to find a partner of choice. Meanwhile live in system also started and given a legal stamp, though many bad results arose but this is still exist. When a completely matured boy and girl get married, the basic thought and image of daughter in law change. Now they are partners, Boy’s parents are no where, just because these days girls don’t leave her parents and family members, she do complete care of her parents brothers sisters etc. She is always there to help them economically physically, so mainly only girls family looks around in festivals or celebrations of special occasions, birthdays or weddings. Boy’s parents feel that they gave birth, educate and gifted their son to the daughter in law. Only a formal relation visible. One more big thing happens, as we all know both husband and wife work hard to earn big money, they have to plan a baby, they don’t have time to bring up their baby and so they need help of grandparents and they take this help.In this work grandma and grandpa alternately help, this is not an imaginary thing but I witnessed such examples. Though this doesn’t happen to all But this happens to many, I don’t know how many but these days we find such examples in many families.
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