Today’s Tip !! Family- Concept Changed !!
One upon a time in India we all have had combined families and lived together, this fact is written by me many times. Younger generation used to apart when the place becomes shorter and not sufficient for all. Then due to jobs at far away places they started living apart. But they have had strong feeling of togetherness, they were always there for each other if they need help in health problems,if they need to share repaying of family debts taken for buying property, facing health problems or expenses in family’s girls weddings. Gradually when educated and earning daughter in-laws started entering in families, the concept of unit family came into limelight. In such families only husband wife and their children exist. They have complete freedom, they started enjoying it. Many problems arose, regarding taking care of younger ones, then Nanny system came , morning till evening the children were taken care by nanny. Are these nannies completely trustworthy ?We have seen many proved criminals cases in which the child was rented to beggars morning till evening, because child in lap gains sympathy and beggars get more money. One day the mother was coming earlier and she her self saw her own baby in beggar’s lap, Police investigators found the baby and the truth too. Till grandparents were taking care children were safe and inheriting good values which finished in this nanny system.Good and healthy food went away from our ( specially from children’s life ) because of these unit families, Most unhealthy Pizza burger Chips came in children’s lives. We previously taught that elders are our roots, and we are branches of this family tree we should always get connected to our roots. But now a days I feel like family is a bird’s nest. The mother bird lays eggs, hatch eggs, teach the birds flying and the birds fly away far , Do the baby birds turn around or even if they meet their parents Do they recognise them ? Not at this extent but some how the family concept is similar to this !!
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