Today’s Tip !! Childhood trauma !!
Yesterday I was watching a famous TV program “ Gullak “ in which the writer describing about today’s children and he said “ Today’s children blame their parents for all their un success and failures with this word childhood trauma. We haven’t heard this word in this reference, this word used to make us feel a serious psychological problem must be cured by a Psychiatrist, because we the generation of 50’s Were not allowed to argue with parents, what we need to do is just obey our parents , teachers, elder brothers and sisters,all relatives uncles and aunts ,neighbourhood uncles and aunts,elder cousins etc. We were slapped off and on by mothers and fathers, elder brothers and sisters, during this beating we got hit, on cheeks , head , back , hands , legs, as we continuously were in protective moving position. Our teachers used to have a cane in hands and we had to spread our palm in front of the teacher after doing any mistake , by teacher’s order , with closed eyes the canning on palms , how many times was depending on teacher’s mood or mistake’s seriousness. There was also a punishment calls “Murga “ we need to band , pull ears by both hands which were beneath the legs. Some times the whole class was made murga because of making noise.Today when we think about that beating we smile, we feel the love and affection of our parents,teachers, today when parents are not alive we regret of our faults and sorry for hurting them by small and big mistakes. We never ever blame our parents for our failures or un success. We don’t have any childhood trauma in our mind. Today’s old parents are what I feel are very easy targets for teenage or adult children.They speak hard to them which hurts, but they never reply, I already had written in my one of Today’s Tip that we are the generation called limited edition because we obeyed our parents and in-laws and now obeying our children too. We are not allowed to say anything hard to them, they can speak hard words , we need to do whatever is asked by them to do. We are made puppets by them, our opinion, our view, our wish our desires are nothing. And still we are accused for all the wrong things happen in their lives, behind this word childhood trauma. !!
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