Dharavahik upanyas Bhoot-Adbhut!(127)

When all of them came back from the Shmashan , Kalyan Singh went to his mother  Kamini Devi, He hugged her and said , “ Pitaji is no more !” The lady who was just out of senses for so many months suddenly started crying loudly. She removed her sindoor from the forehead. For long time she kept crying. She was stroking her hand on Kalyan Singh’s head , suddenly everyone thought that she is completely alright. Shalini came and touched her feet and suddenly she became violent again. Her emotions were out of her control. Dr. Saxena came and asked the nurse to inject her so that she can sleep a sound sleep. Dr. Saxena then said “ It’s Schizoaffective disorder “ it will take time to recover. Let her sleep , We’ll take care of her. You please go home. “Kalyan Singh and Shalini both went to their quarters.Kalyan Singh was very sad that day. He had to bear the pain of the great sorrow of her parents, father left the world and Mother not in senses. Shalini understood his pain completely sympathised with him. She always treated him softly and took always good care of him. After thirteen days after doing Shraddh Puja in the temple, they became normal and tried leading normal family life.——— Continued———

Aapbeeti : Rajendra ki kalam se !!

 कांपते हाथों को देखा 

तो पहली बार उम्र नजर आई।

वरना इस चेहरे से हर चोट 

दुनियां से छुपाई।

कितने तानें हिस्से आई 

कितनी कड़वी बातें आईं।

जुबां तक पहुंचे लफ़्ज़ मगर 

होठों ने शिकायत न सुनाई।

वक़्त चेहरे पर उतरआया 

थकान आंखों में समाई।

फिरभी जिम्मेदारियों की

गठरी मैंने कहां हटाई।

एक दिन यह कांपते हाथ 

आराम की चादर ओढ़ लेंगे। 

तब शायद सब मेरी 

खामोशी के मायने खोज लेंगे।

Dharavahik upanyas Bhoot-Adbhut!(126)

At one side Kalyan  Singh started his family life and on other side Chandan Singh Chaudhary was ordered to be hanged till death by sessions court. Kalyan Singh was informed by the lawyer. Kalyan Singh was told by him that it will be very costly to appeal at higher courts and the way your father had killed Shamu is rarest of the rare way crime and so the Punishment will be the same in any case. Kalyan Singh didn’t have money too so he left this thought to appeal at higher courts. The day and date was conveyed by the lawyer to Kalyan Singh . It was very very sad day. Kalyan Singh took leave from his office. He informed Deenu, Bheema and Dr. Saxena too. It was the most unfortunate day. Kalyan Singh alone went to meet his father a day before. Chandan Singh was feeling ashamed he didn’t speak even a word. Next early morning he was hanged till death and after doing formalities the dead body was handed over to Kalyan Singh , he already had done arrangements for daah sanskar at the bank of the local river. Deenu Bheema and other people from Asylum helped. A glorious chapter of Chandan Singh Chaudhary ended so pathetically. ———- Continued ———

Dharm & Darshan : Mahabharat se Shiksha !!

 श्रीराम 

*खरंच कधी कधी मला असं वाटतं..*

 *महाभारतातून....*

*शिकायचं काय.....?*

नातेसंबंध खूप महत्वाचे आयुष्यात...

महाभारत संपलं. युद्ध संपलं. शंख शांत झाले. रथ थांबले. धुळ खाली बसली....!

पण एक प्रश्न अजूनही हवेत तरंगत राहिला...!

हे सगळं नेमकं कशासाठी घडलं?

राज्यासाठी? 

सत्तेसाठी? 

अहंकारासाठी? 

की नात्यांसाठी?

 जितकं महाभारत वाचत जातो, तितकं जाणवतं की महाभारत हे युद्धाचं पुस्तक नाही; ते नात्यांचं *शवविच्छेदन* आहे. 

प्रत्येक नातं फक्त उघडून दाखवत नाही तर ते आपल्याला विचारत राहतं...

तुम्ही खरंच एकमेकांवर प्रेम करत होतात का, की फक्त एकमेकांचा उपयोग करत होतात?

धृतराष्ट्राने दुर्योधनावर प्रेम केलं, पण त्या प्रेमात न्याय नव्हता. जिथे न्याय मरतो, तिथे प्रेमही फार काळ जिवंत राहत नाही.

 गांधारीने पतीच्या दुःखात सहभागी होण्यासाठी डोळ्यांवर पट्टी बांधली; पण मुलाच्या चुकीवरही तीच पट्टी कायम राहिली. कधी कधी अति निष्ठाही नातं वाचवू शकत नाही.

भीष्मांनी वचन जपलं, पण त्या एका वचनासाठी कित्येक आयुष्यांचं सुख गमावलं. नात्यांमध्ये शब्द पाळण्यापेक्षा माणूस जपणं अधिक महत्त्वाचं असतं.

द्रोणांनी अर्जुनावर प्रेम केलं, पण एकलव्याला नाकारलं. पक्षपात हा गुरूलाही लहान करून टाकतो. 

कर्णाला आयुष्यभर प्रेम हवं होतं, स्वीकार हवा होता. जिथे माणसाला स्वीकार मिळत नाही, तिथे तो चुकीच्या माणसाशीही आयुष्यभर नातं जोडतो. दुर्योधनाने कर्णाला मान दिला, म्हणून कर्ण शेवटपर्यंत त्याच्यासोबत उभा राहिला. माणूस उपकारापेक्षा स्विकाराचा जास्त ऋणी असतो.

 द्रौपदीच्या अपमानाच्या वेळी सभेत अनेक नाती बसली होती. पितामह होते, गुरू होते, राजे होते, ज्येष्ठ होते; पण कोणीच उभं राहिलं नाही. त्यादिवशी समजलं की नातं म्हणजे रक्ताचं नसतं. अन्यायाच्या वेळी जो तुमच्या बाजूला उभा राहतो, तोच आपला असतो.

 कुंतीने सत्य लपवलं आणि त्या एका सत्याच्या ओझ्याखाली कर्ण आणि अर्जुन दोघांचं आयुष्य भरडलं. नात्यांमध्ये उशिरा सांगितलेलं सत्य कधी कधी छोट्यापेक्षाही जास्त वेदना देतं.

अभिमन्यूला चक्रव्यूहात सगळ्यांनी मिळून मारलं. कारण एकटा माणूस कितीही मजबूत असला तरी तुटू शकतो. नात्यांची खरी परीक्षा एखादा माणूस एकटा पडला की सुरू होते. 

*कृष्ण सगळ्यांचा होता, पण कोणाच्याही मालकीचा नव्हता. त्याने शिकवलं की नात्यात साथ द्यायची असते, स्वातंत्र्य हिरावून घ्यायचं नसतं.*

*तो अर्जुनाचा मित्र होता; पण त्याच्यासाठी युद्ध लढला नाही. फक्त योग्य मार्ग दाखवला.*

*खरं नातं तुमच्यासाठी निर्णय घेत नाही, तर तुम्हाला योग्य निर्णय घेण्याइतकं सक्षम करतं.*

*विदुराने सत्य सांगितलं, पण कोणी ऐकलं नाही. नात्यांमध्ये सत्य बोलणारा माणूस अनेकदा एकटा पडतो; पण शेवटी तोच सर्वात स्वच्छ राहतो.*

महाभारतात जवळजवळ प्रत्येक नातं तुटलं—वडील आणि मुलगा, भाऊ आणि भाऊ, गुरू आणि शिष्य, आई आणि मुलगा, पती आणि पत्नी, मित्र आणि मित्र. पण ही तुटलेली नाती आजही आपल्याला नाती कशी जपायची हे शिकवतात.

कारण प्रेम पुरेसं नसतं. विश्वास लागतो. 

विश्वास पुरासा नसतो. प्रामाणिकपणा लागतो. प्रामाणिकपणा पुरेसा नसतो. योग्य वेळी योग्य गोष्ट करण्याचं धैर्य लागतं. 

महाभारत सांगतं की नातं टिकवण्यासाठी नेहमी जिंकावंच लागत नाही. 

कधी स्वतःचा अहंकार हरवावा लागतो. 

कधी स्वतःचं म्हणणं सोडावं लागतं. 

कधी माफी मागावी लागते. आणि कधी... माफही करावं लागतं.

शेवटी महाभारताने एवढंच शिकवलं की रक्ताची नाती जन्म देतात; पण मनाची नाती आयुष्य देतात.

 

*ज्याला तुमच्या यशापेक्षा तुमचा अश्रू महत्त्वाचा वाटतो,*

*ज्याला तुमच्या पैशापेक्षा तुमचा हात महत्त्वाचा वाटतो,*

*ज्याला तुमच्या पदापेक्षा तुमचं मन महत्त्वाचं वाटतं,*

*त्यालाच जपा.*

कारण महाभारत संपलं, राज्य मिळालं, विजयही मिळाला; पण जे हरवलं, ते पुन्हा कोणालाच कधीच मिळालं नाही.

म्हणून शेवटी महाभारत युद्ध जिंकण्याची कथा नाही. ती नाती हरवू नयेत म्हणून वेळेत माणूस होण्याची कथा आहे.

*जय श्री. कृष्ण 

Dharavahik upanyas Bhoot-Adbhut!(125)

The court already had given them the date which they received by post on Shalin’s address, Next Wednesday they will have to reach before marriage registrar’s office with two witnesses, Samantha informed church’s office for one and half hour’s leave. The second witness was Dr. Saxena , he was happily agreed. Exactly at eleven o’clock all of them reached to the Registrar’s office. The marriage registrar asked a couple of questions, both of them were matured adults so they were asked to sign in the marriage register. Both the witnesses also signed there. The clerk typed a certificate of marriage and handed it over to them after taking signatures. Both of them brought two flower garlands too they exchanged garlands. Kalyan Singh opens the sweets box and distributed to all. It was the most happy moment for the couple. Everyone went to their own works there, except Kalyan Singh and Shalini they were on leave that day. They first went to the jail and touched Chandan Chaudhary’s feet. Chandan Singh started sobbing, Kalyan Singh asked him to calm down, he gave a sweet box there to distribute among all .Then they came to the hospital and touched Kamini Devi’s feet, she was expression less. Vasanti and Deenu also reached there and congratulated them Kalyan Singh gave him two boxes of sweets to distribute among all staff members. The newly wedded couple already had plan to go and see movie in the Cinema hall. ——-Continued ———-

Dharavahik upanyas Bhoot-Adbhut!(124)

Both of them chalked out their marriage plans. At first they applied to the court that they are adults and want to get married and get the marriage legally registered. They went to Samantha who was just appointed as warden of a missionary school owned by the Church. They got the date after a week. Both of them were now going to become husband and wife so they shared their monitory status so that they could start their family life without any problem. They bought some a couple of new clothes. Kalyan Singh went to meet his father in jail and informed about his marriage with Shalini. Chandan Singh Chaudhary was as usual silent and didn’t speak anything. Kalyan Singh and Shalini went to Kamini Devi’s room too but her condition was worse than previous. All the people who were a part of Chandan Singh’s haveli now scattered here and there. It’s human nature, he struggles and accept challenges, face hard times but dedicatedly works hard stays strong and then he again makes a new life. Most of the times it’s better than his previous status. Kalyan Singh was the example of it ,  who lived a royal life was suddenly become alone , homeless and without family without job but he was strong and was walking strongly. ———-Continued ——

Dharavahik upanyas Bhoot-Adbhut!(123)

When one month was about to finish, Kalyan Singh got worried about residence. Shalini asked ,” What are you thinking?” Kalyan Singh said , “ No, nothing, I need to find a residence for myself. “ Shalini laughed loudly, she said “ You don’t need to go anywhere but you will have to do a different work ? What ? Asked Kalyan Singh “Marry me” she replied boldly “ Kalyan Singh opened his eyes wide. “ What ? “ Now she put her head slightly down like a shy girl, who suddenly realised that what she had spoken! But Kalyan Singh smiled with inner happiness. In last one month he had judged her. She was a good young girl and she will become a very good wife. Now in such situation, when his father was in jail and mother was in Asylum. He will have to take decisions on his own.He said, “ I am ready.” Now Shalini got surprised, looked up., Both looked at each other and agreed.” They then planned for a long time how to get married, and when to get married. At last they decided first to register the marriage in the court and then get married in the temple. Kalyan Singh decided to invite Samantha as elder. They were now looking differently to each other and calculating would it be a correct decision????———-Continued ———