मेरे बारे में---Nirupama Sinha { M,A.{Psychology}B.Ed.,Very fond of writing and sharing my thoughts

मेरी फ़ोटो
I love writing,and want people to read me ! I some times share good posts for readers.

गुरुवार, 25 अप्रैल 2024

Today’s Tip !! Once upon a time !!

 We the generation born in 50-60 are called Limited edition and that’s very true because we are unique. We started our childhood between fifty to sixty, we didn’t have toys to play, boys and girls both used to play gilli danda, sitoliya , even khokho in the streets, nadi le ki pahaad , aankh michauli ( Eye spy) and  दडा मार a ball made by waste cotton cloths used to be thrown at the back of any one among all the players and then, if the ball hits, that boy get chance to throw the ball. In summer vacations we used to play ( पाँचे -five small stones or some other objects made by Lakh or sagar gota ) this was the game for girls only. Boys and girls both played ( asht Chang pay ) it was a very interesting game without spending any money, by drawing a board on the floor by chalk and tamarind seeds were used as dice , it was so interesting children used to play all day long. We had only four or five dresses and two or three uniforms,Our parents used to buy new clothes and shoes along with crackers for us on Diwali and we had cotton white shoes we used to wash them ourselves and polish that by white chalk, We had ink pens, and ink pot to fill the ink by droppers, we had pencil box too which we called compass box in which we had have Geometry instruments, eraser and sharpener with pencils. Same course books were used by one after another class students and so they were kept in good condition to sell or purchase from the market. We used to pay 20 paisa as our monthly fees in schools,We always go to school on foot and by bus to college. We took part in games and school’s cultural programs freely. We respected our teachers, If we are brought up in villages due to parents transferable jobs we could get chance to see movie once on a year during visit to home town. We didn’t have breakfast, we called it lunch before going to school at 10.30 then in school’s  recess we used to eat one more parantha which we used to bring in our lunch boxes. We shared it with our friends.Study was our entertainment. Girls and Boys schools were mostly  different.We celebrated all festivals with great enthusiasm. Boys and girls used to get attracted towards each other due to infatuation, sometimes some love letters caught and used to become a subject of discussion among people. Parents used to be worried about their daughter’s marriages , they didn’t want their daughters to be very ambitious. Just after graduation or post graduation the girls were married and sent to their husband’s house.We didn’t have fans up to 1980’s we got TV in 1982 during Asiad games.We saw the fast development from 2003 after Internet and  mobile entered and changed with new features quickly. We have seen two centuries and eight different decades.We defeated Polio,and now even Corona. We have seen telegram from telegraph office, long distance calls on telephones to today’s video calls.WhatsApp chats, Reels on YouTube or Instagram. We listened to our parents our in-laws, and now listening to our children  We still haven’t changed our routine, we wake up early and sleep early, We take care of our relationships with near and dear ones, we stood always there for our children. We trust GOD and believe he is there for us we believe that we have always taken care by GOD. 


शनिवार, 20 अप्रैल 2024

Today's Tip !! Perfect relationships !!

 Relationships start right from the beginning when we born. Relationships with Parents and siblings also change with the time.As we grow up we get education we get jobs,we get married,we make our families.Our lives go towards different directions,we face our own problems regarding our jobs or families.We can keep in touch with our parents or brothers or sisters,or cousins.We meet them very rarely during some family functions,like weddings or in vacations or might be at the loss of any near and dear member of the family.Relationships which gets continued in formal manner, are long lasting, as soon as people get informal chances of discussions convert into arguments,or your some comment with informal way can pinch someone,or deeply hurt someone,and those relations which were quite good convert into bad relations,but as we know the words which are spoken can't be withdrawn, like the arrow or bullet after shooting from the bow or gun.This makes a knot in the smooth thread of relationship,which remains throughout the life.Those brothers and sisters who pulled each others hair in their childhood,slaps eachother in their childhood in the morning,and laughs on each others jokes in the evening, now can't tolerate even a little comment.Why? have you ever imagined about it ? because many new members are now the part of the family,brother's wives or sister's husbands,their different back grounds,their teachings and learnings, their young children and the way they brought up,and their surroundings their friends circle and the social media effects.!!

बुधवार, 17 अप्रैल 2024

Dharm & Darshan !! Seva Ani Ahankar !! {MARATHI }

 श्रीराम समर्थ

सेवा आणि अहंकार

*रावणाशी युद्धाच्या दरम्यान प्रभु श्री रामचंद्रांच्या सैन्यासाठी लागणारी रसद अन्नसामग्रीतले पीठ एकदा संपले होते.*

 *श्री राम हनुमंताला म्हणाले चित्रकूट पर्वतावर जा तिथे तुला अन्नपुर्णामाता दळण दळत असल्याचा आवाज येईल. तीच्या कडून आपल्या सैन्यासाठी पीठ घेऊन ये. हनुमंतांनी श्री रामाना विचारले,पण अन्नपुर्णामाता मला कशी काय ओळखणार ?*

*श्री राम म्हणाले ओळख म्हणून ही माझी अंगठी तीला दे आणि त्यांनी स्वतःची अंगठी हनुमंतांना दिली.*

*हनुमंत पर्वतावर पोहोचले, त्यांच्या मनात विचार आला मी जर पीठ नेले नाही तर श्री रामांच्या सैन्याची काय अवस्था होईल, शेवटी माझ्या शिवाय *प्रभु श्री रामचंद्रांचे कोणतेही काम होणे अशक्यच. हनुमंताना अहंकाराने ग्रासले.*

*एका मोठ्या गुहेतून जात्यावर दळण्याचा आवाज येत होता. त्या गुहेवर एक भली मोठी दगडाची शिळा होती. त्या गुहेसमोर जाऊन हनुमंतांनी अन्नपुर्णामातेला हाक मारली, म्हणाले माते मी प्रभु श्री रामचंद्रांचा सेवक हनुमंत, मला त्यांनी तुमच्याकडून सैन्यासाठी पीठ आणण्यासाठी पाठविले आहे. गुहेतून अन्नपुर्णामातेचा आवाज आला,*

 *हे हनुमंता !* 

*गुहेवरची शिळा बाजूला करून आत ये. हनुमंत आपल्या शेपटीने शिळा बाजूला करू लागले, शिळा काही जागची हलेना. मग दोन्ही हातांनी शिळा बाजुला करायला लागले तरी शिळा काही तसूभरही हलली नाही. मग शरीरातील सर्व शक्तीनीशी जोर लावून शिळा बाजुला करायचा प्रयत्न करू लागले, घामाघूम झाले, काही केल्या शिळा बाजुला काही सरकत नव्हती. हनुमंतांच्या मनात विचार आला मोठे मोठे पर्वत उचलण्याची शक्ती माझ्यात असून देखील हा एवढासा यत्किंचित दगड मला बाजूला करता आला नाही.* 

*शेवटी हार मानून हनुमंत म्हणाले, "माते, ही गुहेवरची शिळा काही मला बाजूला करता येत नाही."*

*अन्नपुर्णामातेने विचारले, हनुमंता तू अहंकार केलास का?*

*तर हनुमंत म्हणाले, "होय माते ! मला आता त्याचा *पश्र्चाताप होतो आहे."*

*अन्नपुर्णामाता म्हणाली, तुला पश्र्चाताप होतो आहे ना? मग आता पुन्हा एकदा शिळा बाजुला करायचा प्रयत्न कर.*

*अन्नपुर्णामातेने सांगितल्याप्रमाणे हनुमंतांनी शिळा बाजुला करायचा प्रयत्न केला, तर काय शिळा अलगद बाजूला सरकली.*

*गुहेमध्ये आत गेल्यावर हनुमंतांनी अन्नपुर्णामातेला प्रभु श्री रामचंद्रांनी दिलेली अंगठी दाखवली, अन्नपुर्णामाता म्हणाली, "त्या पलीकडे तो कोपरा आहे ना तीथे ही अंगठी टाक आणि तुला हवे तेवढे पीठ घेऊन जा.*

*हनुमंतअंगठी ठेवायला गेले, पहातात तर काय तिथे अगणित अंगठी मुद्रांचा डोंगरच जणू खच पडला होता. हे पाहून हनुमंतांनी अन्नपुर्णामातेला विचारले "माते, हा इथे अंगठी मुद्रांचा खच कसा काय ?*

*अन्नपुर्णामाता म्हणाली, "अरे हनुमंता, प्रभुंनी तुझ्यासारखे कित्येक हनुमंत कित्येकदा माझ्याकडे अंगठी घेऊन पाठविले तेव्हापासूनच्या आहेत त्या मुद्रा अंगठ्या"*

*हे ऐकल्यावर मात्र *हनुमंतांचा गर्व पुर्णपणे नाहीसा झाला.*

*सद्गुरूंची सेवा करताना कुठल्या गोष्टीचा अहंकार नसावा.*

*मी करतो म्हणून सेवा होते, हा भ्रम आहे. परमेश्वर प्रत्येक कार्यासाठी कोणा न कोणाची निवड करतो. आपण असलो नसलो तरी ते कार्य ठरलेलंच असतं व ते कोणा न कोणाच्या हातून घडतचं. त्यामुळे सेवेची जी संधी मिळाली आहे तेचं भाग्य माना व संधीचं सोनं करा. अहंकार युक्त, दिखावटी केलेली सगळी सेवा व्यर्थ आहे.*

*राम कृष्ण हरी*

मंगलवार, 16 अप्रैल 2024

Laughter !! Marathi!!

 केळ्या मधून बी काढून अननस कसं बनवता येऊ शकतं याचा मला शोध लागलाय..

.या जगात अशक्य असं काहीही नाही..

.*BANANAS* मधून *B* काढून टाका..

.बाहेर ऊना-तानात जाण्यापेक्षा घरात रिकाम बसलं की सुचतं असं काहीतरी.


सोमवार, 15 अप्रैल 2024

Amazing !!

 *_Something to tickle your brains._*

1. If poison expires, is it more poisonous, or is it no longer poisonous?

2. Which letter is silent in the word "Scent," the S or the C?

3. Do twins ever realize that one of them is unplanned?

4. Why is the letter W, in English, called double U? Shouldn't it be called double V?

5. Maybe oxygen is slowly killing you and It just takes 75-100 years, to fully work.

6. Every time you clean something, you just make something else dirty.

7. The word "swims" upside-down is still "swims"

8. 100 years ago everyone owned a horse and only the rich had cars. Today everyone has cars and only the rich own horses.

9. If you replace "W" with "T" in "What, Where and When", you get the answer to each of them.

*_Vagaries of the English Language.._*

- Wonder why the word funeral starts with FUN?

- Why isn't a Fireman called a Water-man?

- How come Lipstick doesn't do what it says?

- If money doesn't grow on trees, how come Banks have Branches?

- If a Vegetarian eats vegetables, what does a Humanitarian eat?

- How do you get off a non-stop Flight?

- Why are goods sent by ship called CARGO and those sent by truck SHIPMENT?

- Why do we put cups in the dishwasher and the dishes in the Cupboard?

- Why do doctors 'practice' medicine? Are they having practice, at the cost of the patients?

- Why is it called 'Rush Hour' when traffic moves at its slowest then?

- How come Noses run and Feet smell?

- Why do they call it a TV 'set' when there is only one?

- What are you vacating, when you go on a vacation?

*_Enjoy the pun and fun, of the English language._

रविवार, 14 अप्रैल 2024

Patanjali !!

 Companies like Colgate give out advertisements claiming that all dentists recommend their toothpaste; which is a blatant lie.

Sensodyne, which is a toothpaste brand of British multinational Haleon, advertises its product as a cure for sensitive gums and tooth. But dentists advise not to use it as it is a painkiller and doesn't address the root cause.

▪︎ Drinks like Horlicks and Bournvita contain extremely high sugar percentage; but they are marketed as health drinks for children.

▪︎ Fairness creams which promise to lighten your complexion in a week, without any scientific basis.

it's  true that in Corona period’s starting there were no medicines and no Vaccine, at that time we were asked to take precautions and wear masks. But many people got cured ( defeated Corona in one or two weeks time by taking Patanjali’ Coronial ) And this is the biggest truth that British people intentionally, forcefully damaged our Aayurvedik practices to promote Allopathy, and the law promoted by Nehru did the same ) We all know AIIMS is the best hospital , it was in Delhi only but now Modi jee have increasing its branches, I know about Bhopal and Rishikesh branch . Do we know what is the full form of AIIMS अखिल भारतीय आयुर्विज्ञान संस्थान “

The most important thing is — Allopathy medicine has side effects but Aayurvedik has no side effects.

As par my knowledge,Most of the people who had gone to the hospital died and who stayed home survived in Corona period,antibiotics brought reverse effects which was not known to the  Doctors also ,At that time naturopathic, homeopathy and Ayurveda was the great strength for those who were staying home , drinking गिलोय काढ़ा , हल्दी , अदरक etc  fought successfully with Corona . Village people successfully lived normal life because they have immunity to fight with Corona, people who walked 1500 किलोमीटर on foot . I belong to a Doctors family And I won’t hesitate to say Hospitals are these days only a business centres ! Village people successfully lived normal life because they have immunity to fight with Corona, people who walked 1500 किलोमीटर on foot . I belong to a Doctors family And I won’t hesitate to say Hospitals are these days only a business centres ! Yes, but any IMA council test proofs (unbiased), if yes again then we should lose faith on 'Dhanvantari' and 'Charak' and prosecute modern ayurvedic medicines. Who is father of allopathy?

The term "allopathy" was invented by German physician Samuel Hahnemann(1755-1843). He conjoined allos "opposite" and pathos "suffering" as a referent to harsh medical practices of his era which included bleeding, purging, vomiting and the administration of highly toxic drugs.

Christian Friedrich Samuel Hahnemann was a German physician, best known for creating the pseudoscientific system of alternative medicine called homeopathy. The problem is the authenticity of any treatment. 

Public is getting lynched by any kind of medical fraternity... That has to end. 

Who and not WHO  will prove that??

 not concerned with Patanjali only. 

what people are saying long before you said it today under the social media pressure, why it’s Patanjali only.

Very simple solution to this rotten medical system of our country.... 

IMA has to be constituded with sincere experts and easily accessible to public for redresal. Stage 1 fails then a government Health number for public to the highest authority. 

This is a corporate system provided corruption monitors are in place at every step.

People living in developed countries buy capsules of turmeric and fenugreek, for after fractures or high blood pressure, they are buying costly organic vegetables, millets etc. because they know it is healthy.

Our entire medical assistance has remained a good luck arena. So many hospitals, so many doctors supposed to be a nobel profession has become a farce. The health insurance companies are hand in gloves with these medical fraternities. 

The common man screwed tight between the two. 

The government should tame down the IMA instead of creating more medical institutions, to create another source of income from aspiring students. 

If one manages to come out of these vices then 

It is Good Luck for them.

शनिवार, 13 अप्रैल 2024

Marathi Story !

 *आईचा खिसा*


मला लहानपणी नेहमी प्रश्न पडायचा की बाबांना कसा खिसा असतो, त्यात ते पेन , सुट्टी नाणी , कधी कधी बंद्या नोटा ठेवतात. तसा आईला खिसा का नसतो?


शाळेची फी भरताना बाबा कसे ऐटीत खिश्यातून काढून फी साठी पैसे देतात,  किंवा प्रगतीपुस्तकावर खिश्यातलं पेन काढून ऐटीत सही करतात. तसा आई जवळ खिसा का नसतो?आणि जर असलाच खिसा, तर नेमका कुठे असतो?


आईला विचारलं की ती फक्त हसायची. तुला भूक लागली असेल ना... असं म्हणून पदर खोचून शिऱ्यासाठी रवा भाजायला घ्यायची. त्या रवा भाजण्याच्या वासावर भुकेशिवाय दुसरं काही सुचत नसे. 


एकदा खेळताना पडल्यावर पायाची जखम पुसायला कापसाचा बोळा मिळाला नाही म्हणून आईने चक्क कॉटनच्या नव्या साडीच्या टोकाने  माझी जखम पुसून काढली आणि मग कपाटातील कैलास जीवन काढून त्यातलं लोण्याच्या गोळ्यासारखं मऊ मलम माझ्या जखमेवर लावलं. मला रात्री लवकर झोप यायची तेव्हा ती घरातली कामं लगबगीने आवरून तिच्या जुन्या साडीचा काठ घडी करून,  मला दिव्याच्या उजेडाने त्रास होऊ नये म्हणून माझ्या डोळ्यावर मांडायची आणि मला त्या साडीसारखीच अगदी तलम निद्रा यायची.


कुठे बाहेर जाताना बाबा खिशातून पैसे काढून रेल्वेची तिकीटं काढायचे आणि आई मात्र खिडकीतून झूं झूं करत येणारा वारा माझ्या कानाला झोंबतो  म्हणून माझ्या कानाकेसांभोवती आपला पदर गुंडाळून घ्यायची. तेव्हाही माझं लक्ष खिडकीतल्या बाहेरच्या दृष्याबरोबरच बाबांच्या खिश्याकडे असायचं. मोठा झाल्यावर मीसुद्धा बाबांसारखा खिसा शिवून घेऊन त्यात वेगवेगळ्या वस्तू ठेवणार हे मी ठरवून ठेवलं होतं.


 नेमकी तेव्हाच आई पदराच्या टोकाला गुंडाळून ठेवलेली गोळी (मला तहान लागली असताना) हळूच माझ्या जिभेवर ठेवायची. तृषा पूर्ण शांत व्हायची. कधी खेळताना सर्व मुलं बॉल आणण्यासाठी वर्गणी काढत.अशा           वेळी आई तिच्या पदरात बांधलेला रुपया दोन रुपया काढून देत असे आणि वर अजून एखादा रुपया देऊन "उन्हं फार आहेत. पेपरमिंट खा चघळायला"  म्हणून सांगत असे. 


मित्र म्हणत तुझी आई खूप छान आहे रे, तेव्हा माझी कॉलर टाईट होत असे. आईकडे खिसा नसतानाही बाबांपेक्षा जास्त गोष्टी तिच्याकडे कशा हा प्रश्न मला थोडा मोठा होत असताना पडू लागला. 


आणि एक दिवस माझं मलाच उत्तर सापडून गेलं. आईकडे खिसा असतो, पण त्या खिशाला चौकट नसते. तो खिसा म्हणजे आईचा पदर असतो, जो कायम मुलांसाठी सुखं बांधून ठेवत असतो. 


*तो आईचा, आपल्या मुलांसाठी कधीही न रिक्त होणारा खिसा असतो.* 


 *आईचा खिसा.*

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