मेरे बारे में---Nirupama Sinha { M,A.{Psychology}B.Ed.,Very fond of writing and sharing my thoughts

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सोमवार, 27 अक्टूबर 2025

Dharm & Darshan !! Karpur Gauram !!

कर्पूर आरती का अर्थ और महत्व*

कर्पूरगौरं करुणावतारं संसारसारं भुजगेन्द्रहारम्।*

*सदा वसंतं हृदयारविंदे भवं भवानीसहितं नमामि।।"*

मंदारमालाकुलतालकायै कपालमालांकितशेखराय।*

*दिव्याम्बरायै च दिगंबराय नम: शिवायै च नम: शिवाय।।"*

कर्पूर आरती का संबंध कर्पूर (कपूर) से नहीं*

*इस आरती को अक्सर "कर्पूर आरती" कहा जाता है, लेकिन इसका कपूर से कोई संबंध नहीं है। केवल इसकी शुरुआत "कर्पूरगौरं" शब्द से होती है, इसलिए इसे यह नाम दिया गया है। यह भगवान शिवजी और माता पार्वती जी की एक अत्यंत सुंदर स्तुति है। इसका अर्थ समझने से यह और अधिक आनंददायक हो जाता है।*

शब्दार्थ और व्याख्या:

1. कर्पूरगौरं – कपूर के समान श्वेत, पवित्र, गौरवर्ण वाली (माँ पार्वती जी)

2. करुणावतारं – करुणा के साक्षात अवतार (भगवान शिवजी)

3. संसारसारं – संसार के सार (अर्थात् जो संसार का आधार हैं)

4. भुजगेन्द्रहारं – जिनके गले में भुजंगराज (सर्प) का हार सुशोभित है (शिवजी)

5. सदा वसंतं हृदयारविंदे – जो सदा भक्तों के हृदय के कमल में निवास करते हैं

6. भवं – भगवान शिवजी 

7. भवानिसहितं – माता भवानी जी (पार्वती जी) सहित

8. नमामि – नमन करता हूँ, वंदन करता हूँ

दूसरा श्लोक:

9. मंदारमालाकुलतालकायै – मंदार पुष्पों की माला से सुशोभित (माँ पार्वती जी)

10. कपालमालांकितशेखराय – मस्तक पर नरमुंडों की माला धारण करने वाले (शिवजी)

11. दिव्याम्बरायै – दिव्य वस्त्र धारण करने वाली (पार्वती जी)

12. दिगंबराय – आकाश को ही वस्त्र मानने वाले (भगवान शिवजी)

13. नम: शिवायै – पार्वती जी को प्रणाम

14. नम: शिवाय – भगवान शिवजी को प्रणाम

भावार्थ:

यह स्तुति भगवान शिवजी और माता पार्वती जी के दिव्य स्वरूप का वर्णन करती है। शिवजी करुणा के अवतार हैं, संसार के सार हैं और सर्पों को आभूषण की तरह धारण करते हैं। वहीं, माता पार्वती जी मंदार पुष्पों से सुशोभित हैं। शिवजी दिगंबर हैं, जबकि माताजी दिव्य वस्त्रों में सुशोभित हैं। इस स्तुति में शिव-पार्वती जी को एक साथ नमन किया गया है।

यह स्तवन कई बार गलत उच्चारण के साथ बोला जाता है, इसलिए इसका सही अर्थ समझना बहुत आवश्यक है। इसे भावपूर्वक गाने से मन को शांति और भक्ति की अनुभूति होती है।*



Dharavahik crime thriller ( 140) Apradh !!

All of them got ready and hired a taxi. They reached to Brahmin Dharmshala . They were allotted four rooms. Parvati Devi organised all the luggage in one big room. Asked her daughters to stay there. Somesh Gaur, Parvati Devi and Nirmal went to Brajesh Shukla’s house. They were welcomed there. Parvati Devi handed over the cotton bag to Brajesh Shukla’s hands. He immediately started counting them. Meanwhile Janki Devi brought a tray with four cups of tea with biscuits there. When Brajesh Shukla finished his counting, he becam happy and came there at drawing room. He said, “ Now you need not to worry about any thing the complete arrangement of ceremony, refreshments for guests and the rent for the Dharmshala already is paid ,You go and take rest, Pundit ji will reach you and guide you tomorrow early morning the muhurt of the complete marriage rituals is at ten thirty morning , he looked at Janki devi she nodded her head . Parvati Devi , Somesh Gaur and Nirmal came back to the Dharmshala. They were served good food there, they slept early as they had to wake up early .————- Continued ———-

Dharavahik crime thriller ( 139) Apradh !!

 Nirmal and his family reached railway station on time. They carefully locked their suitcase by lock & chain. All of them wearing ordinary dresses. When they reached Jalandhar they felt relaxed because taking costly things like gold and cash with was a very risky thing. Somesh Gaur came to receive them. They reached first to Somesh Gaur’s house. Somesh Gaur informed Brajesh Shukla about their arrival. Brajesh Shukla asked him to take them to the Brahmin Dharmshala, he had arranged and paid  their stay there. The wedding ceremony will also performed there that place is very near to their house. He said , “ Ask Parvati Devi to give me the cash first here that it will be risky to carry that much cash there. Also he asked Somesh Gaur to keep the ornaments with him and bring that next day which was the  wedding day. Somesh Gaur understood , he returned back to his house.All of them talked for a long time about Brajesh Shukla and his family.Nirmal said , He looks greedy “ Somesh Gaur agreed. But Parvati Devi said ,” If we need to marry our daughters in respected and rich families we need to do this.Yes , it’s main purpose previously was just to give additional utensils or mattresses bed sheets etc as the members are increasing and they will need these things. But now a days it’s like a deal. Anyways It was kept by Nirmal’s father so we haven’t have any problem giving if for our daughters happy future.——— Continued ——-

रविवार, 26 अक्टूबर 2025

Pure Gold !!

1. Valuables we carry may impress others ,but values we hold inspire others .

2.Value the person who gives you time,they share a part of life with you.

3. Your direction is more important than your speed .4. Enjoy the little things , one day you will look back and realise that they were the big things 

5. Every relation to stay some gives happiness some gives returns.

6. We rise by lifting others.

7. Every relation has reason to stay some gives happiness some give returns.

8.We mistakenly think that success is the amount of time we put in at work instead of the quality time we put in.

9. I forgive but I also learn a lesson I won’t hate you but I will never get close enough for you to hurt me again,I can’t let my forgiveness become my foolishness .

10.Be proud of yourself,you went through every type of pain,family issues trust issues,heart break insecurities,depression etc.You went through it all alone but never gave up.

11.There comes a time when you stop crossing oceans for people who wouldn’t even jump a puddle for you.

12.When you choose peace it comes with lots of goodbyes.

13.People become loaners because they have been betrayed by everyone they trusted.

14.You don’t need to rush fast because others are moving fast It’s your journey live it at your own pace.

15.Living alone is hundred times better than living with fake people, who hates you but acts like living you.

16.People respect us only for two reasons,either we have power or our behaviour is helpful,Firestone is temporary but second one is permanent.

17.A Gardner may water the plant daily but fruits grow only in the season Have patience everything is destined to happen at its own time. 

18.Life is like potter’s clay it gets shaped by our own thoughts. 

19. Life doesn’t let us go back and fix the past,but it does give a chance to live each day batter than the previous day.

20.Two things to remember in life,take care of your thoughts when you are alone and your words when you are with people.

21.You don’t have to be constantly improving some days surviving is victory 

22.Life is really nothing without love and care,give it to everyone but don’t expect it back because it’s a feel not a deal.

23.When we do something with lots of honesty dedication and consistency the input reflects in the output.

24. Learning to ignore things is one of the greatest paths to inner peace.

25.There is no right time in life there is just time and you get to choose what to do with it.

शनिवार, 25 अक्टूबर 2025

Dharavahik crime thriller !! (138) Apradh!!

When they left the place both the family members had uncertainty in their brains. Geeta Devi was not at all in mood to take back Vineeta but here Asthana’s & Rastogi’s had a respectable place in village,so it was now became a compulsory move to take her back to Bahraich. She had to be agreed for that. They didn’t have much work there so they decided to go back next day and they declared it. Geeta Devi asked Vineeta to get her bag ready. Savitri Devi gifted nice clothes to the family as gift . Next early morning Vineeta was ready without her wish to go back. Vineeta was feeling like a goat was taking to the slaughter house. She left thinking, she had no option. She had to face what was written in her destiny.This time they were going by bus so Vineeta went to the bus stop with her parents . Her mom and Grandma again gave her nice sarees according to their economic status. Asthana family already reached there. Savitri Devi bid goodbye to her daughter. She hugged Vineeta. Vineeta now became stone image as she didn’t hae tears in her eyes she didn’t have any soft feeling about her parents because she knew they can’t change anything. All of them entered in the bus, the bus conductor whistled and the bus started to move. Shrilal and Savitri were waving their hands but Vineeta didn’t respond.——-Continued ——-

शुक्रवार, 24 अक्टूबर 2025

Dharavahik crime thriller (137) Apradh !!

Next day Savitri Devi got busy cooking different delicious items for Vineeta’s in-laws. Vineeta was helping her but she didn’t like it at all . In fact she didn’t want to do any efforts for patching this almost broken relationship. As I told you right from the beginning daughters were known to be other’s property as they need to marry and go to another’s house for whole life. So parents, we’re trying hard to rebuild the relationship. At twelve o’clock they all arrived. Mahesh Asthana’s brothers didn’t come which was a good thing, because this was completely a matter between bride and Groom’s families.The start was good the talks were polite and good, the lunch was enjoyed by all and then started the descriptions of the robbery in detail. It was really horrible for the narrator and the listener both. During this Geeta Devi was trembling with fear and anger both. She herself faced the hard hit by the main robber on her head. She was showing the mark , it was two inches hairless part of her head .Heera Devi Shrilal and Savitri Devi all realised the reason of her anger. She then said “ My own all gold worth one hundred grams gone with the gold given by you including all the new things you had given to your daughter. Now you tell us what should we do ? If you can compensate our loss then only we can take back Vineeta with us otherwise you keep your daughter. “ Heera Devi Shrilal and Savitri Devi stayed stunned . Shrilal said , “ We have given everything what we had have , even my mother ( Heera Devi ) also gave her own gold which she had kept for herself in this old age.—— Continued——

गुरुवार, 23 अक्टूबर 2025

Dharavahik crime thriller ( 136) Apradh !!

All people went back and Geeta Devi too. She didn’t give any chance to talk further to Shrilal & Savitri Devi . Shrilal with his family came back home. They had a big question in front of them to solve about Vineeta’s future. Shrilal himself went to their house ,( Naresh and Yogesh Asthana’s house ) he was not welcomed but still he had to talk for the further action. He asked Mahesh Asthana “ I have come here to invite you and your family for tomorrow’s lunch. “ At first he straight way denied but when Shrilal said “ What was done cannot be undone but we can find a way for Suraj and Vineeta’s future. “ Geeta Devi immediately said , “ Okay if you think so and you have any idea then we’ll come tomorrow for lunch. “ Shrilal went back home, he had lots of questions in his mind which he discussed with Savitri Devi and Heera Devi”On the other side , Geeta Devi said to her husband and son “ We can’t allow their daughters empty handed. We have lost our own gold and whatever she had brought with her ,if Shrilal is ready to compensate our loss including dowry then only we’ll allow their daughter otherwise they will have to keep their daughter with them. Later we’ll do the legal formalities and get divorce and Suraj can get married with another rich girl of rich family. I told you previously they are not of our level but you didn’t listen to me . I tell you she is not a perfect bride for our Suraj .Let’s see what happens tomorrow. ———— Continued ——

Dharm & Darshan !! Karpur Gauram !!

कर्पूर आरती का अर्थ और महत्व* कर्पूरगौरं करुणावतारं संसारसारं भुजगेन्द्रहारम्।* *सदा वसंतं हृदयारविंदे भवं भवानीसहितं नमामि।।"* मंदारमा...

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