Today's Tip !!
During our journey by car we used to see a sentence written back side of trucks ( Keep Distance ) what does it mean ? Means drive safe keep distance between your car and my truck, as it is safe for both. And this is very true that if we don't keep distance, the vehicles would get dashed and it would be resulted to big loss, might be of the people sitting in. I used to think about this sentence and I found this should be applied to all relationships , to make them better,sweeter, closer and all time as assets. Yes , relationships are like assets, we human beings do very good take care of our assets, always stay alert about them, protect them. But do we take care of our relationships. We have got many small circles of such relationships, such as parents and children, siblings to each other, then a little bigger circle in which we have brother's wife and sister's husband, we have cousins and their wives, friends and their wives. How do we take care of our relationships, my answer is keep distance, means even if we are status wise ahead or behind or driving our life cars simultaneously, we should not interfere, unnecessarily in each other's life, but of course we should always there when any one of us in need of help or some one of us is facing the grief of family member's demise.We should always be there to celebrate occasions if we are invited. Unnecessarily intrusion in someone's inner matters is very bad, but you can suggest and guide to your loved ones.Once upon a time we did have combined families and father used to be the head of the family even if he had four married sons and many grand children. Mother used to be the incharge of homely matters her orders were to be followed by all inside home. But life changed and now a days everyone follows nuclear family system , parents are free when their sons and daughters get married. They now meet each other sometimes or occasionally, in that way they should always remember to make the meetings happy, the stay should be pleasant because both are there for each other in happy moments or when anyone is in need. This way keeping a little distance always makes the relationships sweet. !!
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