Today's Tip !!
Every one , in his life, has to face many situations which are unexpected.Sometimes some near and dear one asks for help which is not directly from you but from your Son or Daughter who is at an honourable post, you are very careful about your relationships as you never used relationships for asking help, ( monetary or something out of the way) but this time when you are asked by someone, you never thought to deny him for anything , then you feel yourself trapped, You have two ways in front of you either you make a false promise or you straight way describe , that why can't you be able to help, as you can say " This is not directly matter concerning me , and I have never asked my son or daughter for such help, because I have decided right from the beginning when he or she got married or became independent, I feel personally that this is the time everyone starts his or her family and makes his own views and principles, if I ask him or her to help you he himself might feel himself or herself in a situation of dilemma, he might say yes or no, This is very True that everyone needs help reaching any goal, Parents Teachers, Mentors , friends and relatives too, no one reaches to his goal on his own alone, those who have availed help from others, might not help others,Changing society, people , norms, and emotions with changing time is responsible for all this. Many times those who have helped get the bad results and he takes an oath never to repeat the mistake, some times the middleman get trapped badly, he without any mistake and helping habit, listens bad words from both the sides. In old days people were very helpful by nature, and they used to help even going out of the way. Everyone was very near and dear to each other like brothers and sisters. Gradually selfishness entered in every body's life , he feels concerned only with the things profitable or beneficial for him, if some goodness is there in his heart and if he wants to help someone ,A fear appears in his mind that it would resulted bad for him, as he has heard about many cases from his friends or from newspapers, tv news or social media and he withdraws his helping hand back.Right or wrong , Good or bad , correct or incorrect all such struggles faces everyone sometimes in life. He acts according to the situation. !!
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