Today's Tip !!
In life many times we find ourselves in a great dilemma, if some one , very loved one have spoken something hard or harsh, your self respect gets hurt at that time, but you don't argue because when you weigh both the words and the loved one in both the sides of a scale you find the loved ones weight is more than the hard words he had spoken and you forget and forgive, but don't make it your habit, because this way you lose your self respect in your own view so either you should try no such situation appear in future from your side, If you are in a bad mood or under some stress and suddenly someone asks you something Which is again against your view and You suddenly get angry and speak some hard words, just after sometime you realise you were wrong but you don't say sorry as you are not in habit of saying sorry to anyone, so these are the three angels we have, in first you get hurt and don't respond hard as you love the person who hurt you, second when you hurt some one and even realising your mistake you don't say sorry as you don't have habit to say sorry , the third angle is what about your self respect, if it happens again and again you will lose your self respect in your view. Let us find a new way to get rid of such complicated situations. If someone hurts you don't give him second chance, if you have hurt someone , immediately say sorry without delay, this will be good for both, you feel relaxed and the person who gets hurt will also feels little lighter the weight of the hard words you has spoken. Self respect is a big thing, if you always be conventional, you yourself make your personality of a chicken ( Coward) gradually, people around you start handling you as they want, all your virtues and talent hide under the shadow of these cowardly reactions. This will affect all your efforts towards your studies or job and when people around you in your friends circle or office or in neighbour hood come to know your weaknesses they will also take advantage of your soft attitude. Human beings need to modify themselves always according to the surroundings, situations, experiences !! In our childhood we learn from parents and teachers but when we grow young we do it from outer world !
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