Today's Tip !!
We do have complaints for many things with many persons, and for many things happens in our life.I am not saying complaints are bad, most of the times complaints are good and they are the reason for corrections and improvements, specially if we complaint for electricity failure to the local office, the engineer come to action and our problem will be solved soon,we have to always complain about local municipal corporation's workers negligence and this way you are doing a duty of perfect citizen, and making the workers attentive towards their duties. Complaining is the right of every citizen in democracy, but we must not make it a habit, because it would result a daily routine from your side and gradually, it would either increase the " Let go" type of thought in workers for your work, or someone among them keep this in his mind which would convert into serious crime and might hurt you hard. Complaining habit is basically not good. If we always complain about food, to our wife she will never come closer to you ,if you daily complain to your neighbour about parking car not to property at his own space. He will have a bitter feeling about you and it won't be good for you, if a house wife daily complains the cleaning lady about her work, she will start speaking about you to other neighbours, definitely not good and it would defame you in your own colony. Same way if you complain about one relative to another relative, it would soon spread to all relatives and then might be that relative come to fight with you whose complaint was done by you.If you have such habit All would get alert with you and when ever you meet them they are just artificially speak to you on just formal subjects.This habit makes you alone among the neighbours among relatives and you yourself won't be happy.And this habit is totally bad if you are mother in law or father in law , son in law or daughter in law, because these are very delicate relationships, a little jerk and the sweetness of relationships turn into bitterness. If we think that speaking to someone, is also an examination in which the less the balanced you speak, the winner are you and highest marks achiever too !!
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