Today's Tip !!
Today we again will read about parenting. As we know Psychology says about individual differences, means every child is different and born with different qualities. Parents and grandparents genes and own specialities. Some children are shy and some are talkative, some are obedient and some are stubborn, so parenting can't be equal towards both type of children.And the timing starts from early childhood of these children.Friendship means the trust that child could share everything with you right from the beginning in childhood. Parenting is the perfect balance of giving him affection,and try to provide him what is needed in childhood and teenage,not everything asked by him. And above all the discipline must be there behind every thing you do, means you are his friend philosopher and guide. This is very true that new generation's most children don't bother about elders and so discipline or parents discipline is must, but it should be so tactful that he can't understand it is a discipline. parents must be a part of their children's life and should know each and everything happening in their life. Let us go back and view the previous generations discipline, in the first generation after independence, children never had a dare even to utter in front of parents , whatever decided by parents was the final decision, even which clothes or shoes are to be bought for whom, those children respected parents very much, then came the second generation after independence, most of them were educated and they were liberal towards their children to choose clothes shoes subjects and taking part in sports etc. But for rest things they were also strict like previous generation, they never became friends with children, most of those children became achieved good position good jobs and successful career.This generation people became good parents, they became good friends of their children and they gave complete space to their children. This is the generation called Limited Edition as they listened to their parents in law's and they listen to their children too. I would like to say only one thing that one rule of parenting can't be applied to all, it depends upon the child. And parents also what efforts done Till now and what results are obtained !!
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