Today's Tip !!
In an arranged marriage or in a love marriage, husband and wife could know each other's merits or demerits only after marriage, when they start living together.As I wrote earlier no body is perfect in this world.When they come to know about demerits, what should they do ? For example the husband is alcoholic and is not ready to leave the habit, because of alcohol's effect he used to be arrogant and this resulted always quarrels between husband and wife,now what ? Now what should be done by wife ? This is true , she would share this to her parents and they try meeting her husband's parents and all of them try making him understand that alcohol is bad and it is spoiling his family life but alcoholic people never easily come out of it . If we talk about the case is of a previous generation lady used to do adjustments and face all the problems regarding this whether she is just a housewife or a working lady. But if the case is of today's generation, the girl never do any type of adjustment. Most of them are working and earning self sufficient amount they don't need to do any adjustment, they go for divorce and move ahead for other marriage.In second case if the boy has some marital affair then also the matter goes to divorce, in this case also if we see previous generation, the wife adjusted, and today we have seen many murders because of such situation, it is not at all possible for an educated and earning self sufficient woman to adjust with such husband. Now we see the other side of the picture, if a woman is character less or careless towards her home management, or in many cases woman's maternal members interference increases the differences between husband and wife and the matter goes to the court for divorce. The best couple always try handling each other carefully and gradually, both start understanding each other and this way a little bit adjustment a little annoyance for each other's weaknesses and a big affection and dedication towards family, ultimately makes a happy family !!
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