Today's Tip !!
How the combined families gradually convert into unit or nuclear families, is worth studying matter.Life was simple and basically depended upon farming or business like shops,before independence and just after independence, This was our first generation after independence and Women Education was not popular though , constitution provided right to educate equally for male and female. Families used to be combined, the necessities were fulfilled by the head of the family. All males were working in their fields or shops or contributed in other family businesses. Old people were taken care by the youngster, all women doing house hold works together, all children were brought up same way, grand parents role was most relevant in bringing up children, with discipline and affection. Discipline used to be maintained among the elders also. Old people need not to work as all works were taken by youngsters. Old people were taken care by youngsters in their old age.Then as we learned in previous episodes, that in second generation after independence women education was pppular and they were doing mostly teachers training to get teachers job and availing other government jobs too. In this reference they need to leave their own home town and go to other small villages too, getting transferred here and there, this way the combined families started vanishing ,then in third generation it increased and in fourth generation going abroad became popular and families now completely became nuclear families. Migration is the basic need of progress,if one family stays at one place and their generation also stay there, no progress is done, but if children go to other places and make their careers , progress would be many times larger.I basically think that nuclear family is the best family. Husband and wife need to give time to each other and to their children ,need to do full efforts for their children's education and all round progress.Whenever they need support of their parents , they call them, Parents also like to time to time to visit their children's place and enjoy with their grandchildren, on the other hand parents who have spent their whole life doing hard efforts to establish themselves and for their children's education they also get relaxed up to this time and live their most important part of life with each other. This is true that old age brings many health problems to old people, but parents and children both can support each other in tough times and that is what only needed. Living together continuously can bring some unpleasant discussions arguments and differences but living away brings you nearer to each other, making you feel more careful about each other, and whenever Parents Children and Grandchildren meet for some time , definitely the time will be the best and memorable for all !!
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