Today's Tip !! Difference in generations !!

In India last three generations we see very little advancement .All of them worked hard throughout their lives.Their only aim was to earn money and save money.They used to spend money only necessities, they used to spend money to buy properties, gold etc.Their only aim used to be saving money for their children.They never spent money to fulfill their own wishes,buying things for their own entertainment,but in first generation the children, just after India's freedom preferred to do government services and for that they need to leave the forefather's properties,later on they gave priority to their services and sold the precious properties for the amount just like pea nuts.They worked hard doing such services,and brought up their children,they educate their children well,but their children also progressed one step ahead and didn't like to stay with their parents,they built their own houses and earned money and honour both for themselves.The parents left behind alone,waiting for children's visit only on Diwali or summer vacations or sometimes in family weddings.Now about the fourth generations,Up to this time multi national jobs preferred by them,due to advanced technology the whole world have become a global village. A drastic change is visible between the two generations,the tastes are different ,choices are different, life styles are different so parents have become just a ladder to reach at the basic destination from where there is the no limit sky of ambitions.In starting three generations we see gradually a lack of emotional attachment arose among family members.Day by day costs of living is rising,Of course saving is necessary for elder people but for own self,for own old age,for medical support.Every one has only one life,and every one has right to fulfill his or her own desires,so spend money for children,only upto their independent earning or independent family life,spend own money for own self. If we collect money and never fulfill our desires ,and die.is it correct ? We make a dream plan to live with our sons and daughter-in-laws, grandchildren and your children just move away,so elder people must live in a small self sufficient house,put money in banks and withdraw the interest as pension,spend money to explore different places till they can move,for services they need in old age when they can't move,and for medical emergencies.Money and emotions both must be invested from where we can get a good return from investment.