Today’s Tip !! Pattern of life !!
Though we all know the truth of life, we know it’s not unlimited data and unlimited time period too. We have to live within, do all the formalities ( study , making careers, getting married, making families, bringing up children and providing them platform to perform their roles, living our old age ( trying to be fit or facing illnesses and leave the world ) I named it formality because this is a necessary pattern every one follows. The pattern changes with the time and generation to generation. It was different during combined families,the basic root was the togetherness of all. Grandparents were the highest authority and everyone had to follow their word. They were respected and taken good care in their old age.Time changed, ambitions arose, sons and daughters preferred making careers in different streams, for progress they need to go out , out of town, or out of country. Marriages whether they are love marriages or arrange marriages, broke the combined family structure. One thing what I feel odd is, wives call their husbands “baby “ means immediately after marriage they snatch mother in law’s son and the motherhood too. Now they call mother in law to their town as grandma for help as nanny for months. During all these changes, role of mothers and fathers change. Now they do whatever their sons or daughter in law’s ask them to do. Just because they belong to generation born during 50’s, We call this generation as limited edition, because this is the most amazing generation, they listened and obeyed their parents, elder brothers, sisters, uncles aunts, even cousins , and now they are obeying their children too without any complaints. They sacrificed their own desires for all these people. Now they have reached to their old age, they can meet their children only on some family wedding occasion for a few days. They need to take care of themselves on their own. But one thing always looks strange , in place of son’s parents, daughter in law’s parents supremacy is visible in most of the families. Those parents also belong to same generation but this thing proves that the family pattern is now changed and it is girl dominated. Those who have daughters previously called “ Yachak” then they stood at the same place of son’s parents, and now they are above son’s parents. God knows what would happen to the next generation. Hopefully we all could see the glimpse of it in our lifetime.!!
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