Today’s Tip !! Attachment & Detachment !!
We human beings born and brought up in a particular family and here we have lots of connected relations. Mom and Dad are prior source of attachment, then siblings are also powerful source of attachment, because they are a vibrant part of our childhood, then cousins, school friends and neighbourhood friends. We feel rich because of such attachments. We get lot of care and guidance by parents, we get most of our desires fulfilled by them , many times they do it out of way because they had to curtail their own desires or manage even necessities too. Previously parents used to think this as investment on their sons , as daughters were always known as “ Paraya Dhan “ means they were brought up and educated and then with got married with a suitable match. The daughters used to get dowry at the time of their marriages according to the financial status of parents, though this dowry changed its original form many daughters were killed for this inhuman custom. Many laws were made and implemented and it was controlled. Daughters now a days are upper hands , they compete with boys, they reach higher posts and positions than sometimes their husbands. This thing make them confident and they deal perfectly with this confidence, at work place , at in law’s house and hold the strings tightly in their hands. Sons were known as “ Budhape ki Lathi “ now this saying has become completely wrong because these days old people need to save money as their budhape ki lathi , their quiet educated sons who time to time growled on them are now puppets of their wives. So the attachment form in hearts of both parents and sons gradually got dim and foggy. Now the next part of life starts, and that is detachment . This way at first sons get busy with their families and at very few occasions they stay together.This is first detachment, now a days we live in unit families so grandparents importance exist only till they can become in role of nanny or care taker or helpers. Modern grandchildren also get busy in their smart phones so the time is gone when grandparents were loved by grand children. This is the second detachment. When we look ourselves in the mirror, we find the beautiful saree or ornament doesn’t suits me or the dress in which I was looking a dashing person doesn’t suits me, this way the collection of these favourite things go in the box of detachment, When we see our medical reports, find deficiencies in it, we get alert and try curing them, start living disciplined life, do walking, being particular towards our medication and nutrition, we love ourselves and get attachment to ourselves. We now only think , we are a single unit, sent by GOD to perform our role and will go back to him as we are a part of him. So we need to take care of ourselves only and get attachment with the supreme power GOD. !!
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