Today’s Tip : Change is necessary !!

I wrote many times about the time and change . Everything changes according to the time and circumstances, those who deny to change and keep themselves rigid towards habits , towards relationships, can never be happy. Always remember life is not too long and life has given equal chance to all to enjoy it all and live it according to their wish. Everything is changed around, when we were children it was different, our education system was different, lots of technological aides were not supporting us.We traditionally have had notebooks , books from libraries and teacher’s or professors lectures , we were consulting dictionaries or encyclopaedia. Our social relationships and social bindings were different. Now a days we can’t expect that discipline or social bindings from our children or grand children. Because they are growing up in different manner outside, if we impose our ideals on them they won’t like it they might oppose, or revolt , even if due to respect they are not opposing they feel a disrespect inside their mind and that’s not good for them and us also. What we need to know is try learning from them what they have learnt today and then make a midway to make it modified a little bit that too if needed. Actually we need to learn from our youngsters because of a long time gap between them and us. This is all about children and those who are grown ups now and married must be left to live on their own. Continuous guidance will make them irritating and it will create a big distance between you and them which is not good in Indian culture’s perspective. In foreign developed countries a child is brought up in different way and he has his own views ideas and it’s respected by elders at home at school or anywhere outside. In India we want to guide our son or daughter in law who are now at forty’s or fifty’s and they are already parents and they have children growing in advanced technologies around, socially changed surroundings. So in old age we should only think of ourselves, our health , our postponed desires our creativity , and those works only which are supported by others. We should stop guiding, stop interfering in children’s lives , the base line is live and let live. !!