Today’s Tip !! Changing roles !!
Time changes every moment and with time we change, childhood to young age and then to old age. With the time everything changes around us. New inventions New technology brigs many new things. Once upon a time we were using typewriter for many years but now we have computers Laptops and many more things in this series. We also change ourselves according to the time. Our dressing senses dress material, shoes hairstyles makeup, Tip to toe we change ourselves. Our vehicles change with each new brand arriving in the market. But we want the relationships exactly as they were traditionally exist. Why ? We need to change regarding relationships also according to the time’s need. For an infant we need to be very good and always careful parents because we planned the baby and brought him in the world. I think all parents whether they are rich or poor educated or uneducated they do their best according to their economic status or knowledge or guidance by others ( elders ) when the child grows up and start going to school parents change their role now they should keep an eye on his Studies and his friends circle his habits and his interest in other extra curricular activities.We should be friendly towards him so that he can share every good or bad thing , success or failures with you and you can guide him batter. Be so comfortable with him or her so that he or she doesn’t need to hide anything from you. Now the final role , this is the time when your children get independent, they get married, through settled marriage or love marriage, but now he is going to start his family life, this time we need to change our roles. First of all always keep saved money for your old age. Because in old age we need money for medical support or other services. We should stay away till we are not asked to help them or join them
We must neither interfere nor suggest anything unless it’s asked. Always think you are a different unit and now son or daughter with her partner is a different unit. To keep the Relations sweet and carrying we need to keep this distance. But what we do is , We want to continue the way we used to treat him and also expect as traditionally used to be in combined families. We have images in our minds that children must take care of old parents in their old age. These days when children live in far away countries doing jobs ,their wives also doing jobs earning equal to your sons might be more than your sons.They have their future and hard work to make this future brighter. Yes , if we are needed there and we could help we should, that’s the way we can have a good time with our grand children but we must not expect anything in return of it. ( I think so ) !!
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