Old people's stories are unlimited, because each old person has a history behind and an interesting story behind. This is very true that all the parents love and care their children unconditionally. They do hard work to earn money for bringing them up, for their studies, for everything they wish or desire or demand whether it is in their range or out of it. They cut off their own needs, desires or wishes, their lives move around their children,of course, by the grace of GOD and children's hard work they achieve their goal and reach at desired destination, they get married and start their lives, up to this time, parents are old , might be retired, if they have made a house as shelter, and strong money walls around, then they stay strong with self existence, self confidence, but if they haven't made any of these for them in their working young age and now they are completely dependent upon their children,and this is not a good situation, we have seen many cases in India, Government has made a Law for old people to be taken good care by children is their liability and parents can complain if they are not properly taken care by children, but we Indians never propagate our home matters publicly. So being dependent is a bad situation. If one of the two people die then other one is completely alone. Husband and wife are two best friends , spend 40,50,60 or more years together, they share hard times and good times in this long period,so sudden demise of one of them makes the other one is lonely.Children are busy doing jobs, grand children busy in schools, no one has time to talk to such lonely Mom or Dad. I don't say all lonely left single parent has to face same situation but I guess almost same situation is there with all lonely single parent.At this age above 80 is really tough, because these old people already are fighting with their one or multiple physical problems. They starts talking to maids or gardeners. They like talking with them. They wait for them, they feel their absence,many times they happily give precious things to them which are owned by them. At this age they even gets detached with gold, money or relationships. They are assets and must be taken care softly even if they behave irritating, children must remember childhood and their love and care, also they should think Old age comes to all !!
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