Today's Tip !!
It is said that marriages are decided in heaven. We have seen the generation in which child marriages were performed, which was totally wrong, but their logic was that they could mold their daughter in law as they wanted, daughter in law could feel at home there as she had been living there since childhood.Husband and wife could be good friends as they had been living together since their childhood. We have heard that mother in laws used to tie her saree's corner with daughter in law's, means bride and groom both were bringing up with discipline.Time changed and development brought changes in marriage system.Love marriages , marriages through Matrimonial in magazines or now a days through Some sites. But the main thing or the base line is the tuning between the two- husband and wife. Previously in traditionally settled marriages both were totally new to each other, still right from the beginning they gradually became friends, and made successful families. Then came the time when love marriages became common, in these marriages many of the families of both sides were not agreed for marriages, so the bride and groom had to support each other adjust with each other's nature and earnings and move ahead to make a successful family, but in many such cases, both could not adjust with each other and divorce cases increased in society, marriages through matrimonial in magazines or sites have its merits and demerits, many crimes committed in such cases, one person marring many women in different towns to capture their money , or after marring selling the brides as the person already involved in human trafficking, in some cases it's found that the brides were used to give birth babies, which the culprit was selling to the couples don't have child. The basic thing of marriage is a male and a female need to make a successful family and move ahead.both have different backgrounds, different circumstances, might be different social and economical status , ambitions but the main thing is ego.It is but natural that ego clashes, but both have to understand that they can't go anywhere, they have to adjust with each other , no body is perfect in life, everyone's habits , nature, choices, lifestyle might be different but they still have to adjust, and this adjustment should be done from both the sides. Then and then only a marriage becomes successful. Theses days a new trend has started, that is Live in relationships in which both start living together, in this they live like husband wife till they like each other.If a child born in such relationship he is a legal successor according to the Indian law. This system increases many complications also in a country like India it's not worth
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