Today 's Tip !
This is true that everyone dies when his or her death comes.No one dies together, except deaths by accidents.Husband and Wife lives a long life together, might be 50-60 or more years together, they become the best friends,they have almost same views for any matter, because this long journey made them thinking same.They solve many problems , cross many hurdles in this journey, they share problems and happiness with each other. They bring children in this world, bring them up , and try hard providing them all needful to make careers, and comforts too according to their economic status , might give luxuries life too if they already belong to rich family background or they have eared riches.In society we see different families having different status. But the tuning between husband and wife is almost same, because they start a family, they bring new lives as children in the world , they fulfill all responsibilities towards their children, After their children get settled and married, their duties now almost over. Now they start thinking about their old age, they have some saved money for their old age. Old age makes each person a bit weaker,they need a house of their own , might be small one and to have mediclaim plan for both of them.In India BPL people have facilities to get medical security up to 5 Lacs from government's Ayushmann Bharat Yojana, but middle class have to manage it by saving money or taking a mediclaim plan. The most important thing is, Husband Wife don't die together. If husband dies before wife, Wife must be strong enough to bear the grief and move ahead, in this reference, we have many types, educated and working woman is basically strong, even though she is retired, she is in practice to handle each type of situation, second type of woman, who had never seen outer world and always lived a house wife's life only, now if husband dies, it becomes tough for her to handle the situation, but if husband had been in a government job, she starts getting half of his pension , this gives her strength and weightage too in her social status, and of course among children too. Confidence is a big thing, each one should make it sharper by experiences. Whenever get a chance avail it, if a lady lives a housewife's life throughout her life walking behind her husband, her husband's sudden death would be a big shock for her, Outer world is completely strange for her, of course her children would look after her but wouldn't it better that she herself could handle her problems and live her old age in a planned way. Those who are uneducated women, successfully handle life after the loss of husband as they are in practice of outer world, way of earning money etc. On the contrary if wife dies first, husband feels helpless at house works if they have not done such works ever. In foreign countries, husband and wife equally Do house hold works it might be cleaning or cooking, changing baby's nappy, or anything else, these days in India also young husbands practicing these as wives also earning same packages or more than husband. But in previous generation husbands never did house hold works so after wife's death they become helpless and dependent upon others like maid or they have to eat tiffin centre's food always. Even if both get trained, but still in old age people need helping people. Selecting good people for help is the toughest work. Crime against elderly people's graph is increasing very fast in India !!
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