Today's Tip !!
Once upon a time, In the first generation after independence there were combined families, and newlyweds knew they are now the part of the husband's family. Her parents used to preach all the time that you are just a guest here ( At parent's house ) and you have to adjust any how there at your husband's house.She was welcomed by husband's family members and she smoothly accepted it as her home as she had no other option and started fulfilling all duties towards this house and members, still it took many years to accept her as family member by all the family members.Then came the time when women started working in schools or offices and they or their husbands used to get transferred and now In law's house became a house only to visit on some occasions .This was the second and third generation after independence.But the fourth generation after independence ( present generation ) is totally different because all the youngsters are highly ambitious, boys or girls. Many of them don't want to get married, as they think it's a big obstacles in their progress.A trend of Live in relationships started and they found it convenient, and those who fell in love and got married or for parents happiness got married, later on these marriages failed or succeeded have many reasons behind. The first thing husband and wife both are extra ambitious and earn quite good, they have very less time ti spend with each other, before marriage they had taken all their decisions on their own but after marriage it is expected from her to ask everything to her husband or in law's which is not liked by many of such girls ,and the most important point is , the interference of parents and brothers and sisters or boy's parents and brothers sisters both are very harmful for these two life partners because already they are adjusting with each other by minimising own desires by lowering their ego, in such cases when one side of family members are authorised to interfere,and the other partner not at all like this , the marriage come to end .So only husband and wife should start their family and adjust with each other, gradually they feel attached with each other and make a loving family !!
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