Today's Tip !!
Children are very near to their mothers, and mother's thoughts , behaviour and guidance make their personality. If mother is educated, impressive and has a social position then children become strong and confident, they have good and have extrovert personality. Those mothers who are living in a combined family and all the time busy doing household works, even if they are educated and non working, so just obeying all elders in - laws by doing all works asked by them to do, the child watches her mother all the time busy listening to everyone, how the personality would be of her child, we also see the different behaviour of grand parents to daughter's children and daughter in law's children, daughter -in -law's children always get the second grade membership of the family, I am here writing about many of the traditional middle class families, and we know Parliament passed the law against dowry and domestic violence because highest dowry deaths reported in 2010 means 1.4 per one Lac women. We can easily calculate the conditions of middle class women, less educated non working and dependent on husbands, they spend their whole life as a house maid without salary, just getting food twice and clothing and some new clothes on festivals. We have seen cases, even if daughter-in -law is educated and working , earning good but she does not have any rights implementing any thing of her own choice, because the higher authorities are her mother-in- law or father-in -law or sister-in- laws and without their consent nothing can be changed or implemented. We can easily understand how her children will be ? And who will be responsible for that ? I have heard these days couple plan a child first and then child arrives in the world , and then ? A child learns most of the things up to the age of six, child understands each and every thing. These circumstances can affect child 's personality !! Just think about it !!
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