Today's Tip---Intentions !!

Intentions are important behind each statement & action. Generally many times people get misunderstood about your words.So it is said that before you open your mouth to speak think twice thrice and then speak.Your words can break many relationships because even if you have had no bad intentions your words break relations,your clarification is useless because the words already had hurt someone is not ready to understand.One more thing is important in this reference one more thing is very important,where this conversation is going on,Are other known people or relatives also present there when the words were spoken,because if the words were spoken in front of other relatives of both the persons,the words can hurt definitely whether your intentions are not bad,though you were just joking because you felt yourself a quite near relative and so open heartedly you cut a joke and it gets taken as making fun,now there is no way to come out of it.Though your intentions were not bad but your words had drawn a breaking line between the two.Some times there are intentions behind some actions.Sometimes someone doesn't want you in their life,he directly can't express his feelings,but he tactfully does his work,later on you come to know that you are intentionally discarded by them.