Today’s Tip !! Parenting !!
When we born the doctor cuts umbilical cord connected to the baby through which he got the nutrition automatically during his development for nine months in uterus now he is out of it and depends upon outer world.Parents bringing him up and do whatever they can do utmost their ability and status also how much their knowledge is.The child grows up starts going to school, here his social life starts,his toys which he never allowed to touch anyone now in school he needs to share the swings, he needs to be disciplined, stay quiet in the classroom, and share things with friends and respect his teachers and Principal home also the change should be visible as he grows young. The realisation of father’s hard work to earn money and providing everything to family members. Realisation of mother’s services how she manages all household works and provides breakfast lunch dinner on time to all the family members washed and ironed clothes to all keep the house neat and clean and buying vegetables and other edibles in budget. Parents postpone their wishes many times when they have to spend the money for fees, books , or demand of some special phone or any other demand of their child. The child , if a sincere student definitely gets a good post a successful career. Parents feel relaxed, now it’s time for his marriage, whether it’s an arranged marriage or a love marriage, a new person enters in life. The girl when comes to this family, at the age of 25 to 30 of age , completely matured and knows her good and bad , she has her own desires and values, dreams and limits. The boy who was totally dependent upon parents till yesterday, now a responsibility of that wedded wife. Also she has right upon him so things change. Choices change Priorities change . Parents find themselves quite behind of these two. If parents try hard to tie these people the things go worst and go beyond their control. Always think that GOD has given wings of ambition ability and intelligence to each one so let the bird fly, fly high in the sky of their ambitions. Let them take their own decisions and make them feel that they are always there for children whenever they need. Parents should think it’s high time to leave them in their own world to live the life of their own choice because the wheel of life shows that parents are now retired, and their adult children have taken their place ( I mean to say , they are now in the role of parents themselves of their own children) Parents must save quite a good amount of money for their old age and a shelter house to live in , they have now the rest of whole life living with their own choice, those wishes which they had postponed for their children ( if there are any ) can be fulfilled now. This is the high time to do anything they want to do and enjoy their old age. This is the high time to cut the invisible cord between parents and children. Let the bird fly if it comes back to you it was always yours if not then think it was never. Remember GITA no one belongs to us And we only belong to GOD , we are a part of him and will go back to him after our death.
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