Today’s Tip !! Boys & Girls !!
Once upon a time girl’s education was prohibited, child marriages were in practice because of invaders bad intentions and girls were called “ Paraya Dhan “ they were nicely moulded into in-laws house discipline, household, customs etc. Later with the efforts of some great personalities like Dayanand Sarasvati & Raja Ram Mohan Rai women education promoted and many bad customs like sati pratha was demolished.These educated ladies started working in schools, banks or other offices, but they did both the duties, household works and working place works. Gradually they became doctors, engineers, and IAS officials too ,earning equal to husbands or more than husbands. In this journey of progress the concept of marriage also changed it’s previous form. Now these wedded wives immediately after marriage think that a Ripen mango fallen in their lap, they never think that their husband is son of an adult couple and they have brought him up, educate him and for that they have bore many pains,for managing money. most of the times sacrificed own desires. Right from the first night this girl follow a planned strategy, when ever the boy talk about Mother she off and on starts saying “ Till which time you will become Mama’s baby, grow up man, now you are a married man.” These words gradually affect hard and the boy starts becoming her husband only. “ Right from the beginning she says “ Our family is a different unit now” the boy agrees.This way either the pretext of job transfer, promotion she takes away her husband from his family.But she never keeps her own parents away. She fulfils all duties towards her parents, she does all expenses not only regarding medical but for their holidays packages too, she does all shopping for them. She does every thing tactfully. When she needs help in her pregnancy, delivery or baby sitting, she calls mother in law and takes complete free service from her, or as nanny she uses her even if she( mother in law ) has to leave her husband and own family works.She commands in her own house , I mean to say” the roles change— the mother in law obeying like a daughter in law and daughter in law commands like mother in law. “ because she is an earning person might be earns more than her husband. “ She continuously poisons her husband psychologically by pumping opposite things in his ear. Gradually husband, who was the son of a mother- father becomes only her obedient husband ,and girl’s complete family- her mother father brother sister and their further family seems around and the boy forgets - to whom he belongs to. This is the change— prominently visible in almost all middle class and upper middle class families. Rich people have different situations because of huge money. !!
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